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====== Coping Skills ====== |
We ([[welcome|Home]] >> [[readers_advisory|Readers Advisory]] >> [[bibliographies_for_adult_readers|Bibliographies for Adults]] >> [[Coping Skills]] |
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I looked-up every book listed in Minnesota) have been wanting to see an update to the fantastic //**Coping Skills**// publication (ISBN: 0-8444-0799-2) that the NLS put out in 1993, so . I thought I'd attempt to have re-create it created my findings here. All are welcome (and encouraged) to participatesuggest new titles and/or categories. I could certainly use the help!\\ |
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I have listed all of the categories as they were in the publication, but I am not tied to them. It has been 20 years since the creation of this publication so I'm sure that everything from the category names to the books included could be outdated.\\ |
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NOTE: I have created a format that I would like to retain if possible (for example, category name = Headline level 2; book titles = Headline level 3)added two new sections/categories: [[http://lbphwiki. That said, I'm open for suggestions aadl.org/coping_skills#unemployment_job_hunting_added_2013|Unemployment/Job Hunting]] and corrections[[http://lbphwiki.aadl.org/coping_skills#returning_vets_military_families_added_2013|Returning Vets/Military Families]].\\ |
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===== Self Development ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength === |
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**Author:** Roy F. Baumeister and John Tierney\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychology professor Baumeister and New York Times science journalist Tierney share twenty-first century research on willpower, or self-control, and suggest ways to increase it. They offer anecdotes, describe experiments that highlight strategies to improve performance and manage impulses, and discuss Alcoholics Anonymous, dieting, parenting, and self-esteem. **2011**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74884|DB 74884]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 10 hours, 36 minutes. |
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=== Playing the Game: A Psychopolitical Strategy for Your Career === |
**Author:** Raymond Blank\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author contends that ability, dedication, and competence are not sufficient to guarantee success or even survival in the work world. He sets forth the essential political and interpersonal skills an employee needs to manipulate subordinates, peers, and supervisors successfully. **1981**.\\ |
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**Author:** John Bradshaw\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A counselor, theologian, and television personality claims that many people harbor a wounded inner child with leftover feelings from past hurts. This inner child can contaminate an individual's life and cause overreactions, marital problems, addictions, toxic parenting, and destructive relationships. He describes how to heal the wounded child within. **1990**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.31960|DB 31960]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 12 hours, 33 minutes. |
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**Author:** Claude M. Bristol\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A hard-headed businessman and skeptical newspaper man tells how to get whatever you want in life by harnessing the unlimited power of your subconscious mind. **1948**.\\ |
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* [[RC 19698]] |
**Author:** David D. Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help manual for achieving self-confidence. Assuming that thoughts have an impact on the way we feel and behave, the author suggests ways to overcome shyness and depression and explores the role of intimacy in our lives. **1985**.\\ |
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* [[RC 23228]] |
**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author celebrates the here and now with the ultimate message that "life is wonderful, joy is our birthright and love is what it's all about." **1986**.\\ |
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* [[DB 23902]] - **IN PROCESS** |
**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Series of lectures originally delivered between 1970 and 1981 on the need of people for one another. Includes stories and anecdotes illustrating the joys and pitfalls that the search for love entails in these troubled times. Reassuring self-help philosophy. **1982**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.17739|DB 17739]] - Read by Bob Askey. Reading time: 8 hours, 14 minutes. |
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**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This book is an extension of an experimental class that the author created at the University of Southern California. His basic message is that while the need to love and to be loved is innate, the way we love is learned, and that every single person can learn to love. **1982**.\\ |
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* [[RC 18663]] |
**Author:** Dale Carnegie\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Originally published in 1937 and revised in 1981 to "clarify and strengthen the book for a modern reader," this guide provides fundamental techniques in handling people. Includes how to make people like you, how to win them to your way of thinking, and how to be a leader without offending or arousing resentment. **1936**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.53469|DB 53469]] - Read by Jack Fox. Reading time: 8 hours, 28 minutes. |
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=== How Everything to Win Friends and Influence People in Gain: Making the Digital Age Most of the Rest of Your Life === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Brent Cole; Dale Carnegie & AssociatesJimmy Carter and Rosalynn Carter\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This update Account of how the former president and first lady made the transition from the White House to //How to Win Friends and Influence People// (DB 53469)Plains, Georgia. In this joint narrative with individual interjections when recollections or interpretations differ, offered seventy-five years after the original was published, incorporates successful use Carters tell of social media. Details easy-to-employ strategies for productive conversations and collaborations their involvement in business a host of projects and personal lifevolunteerism. Discusses ways to communicate, lead, and work well with others**1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.75355detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/25995|DB 7535525995]] - Read by Jeff AllinMitzi Friedlander. Reading time: 7 hours, 24 minutes1 minute. |
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=== Everything to GainSmart for Life: Making the Most of the Rest of How to Improve Your Life Brain Power at Any Age === |
**Author:** Jimmy Carter and Rosalynn CarterMichael D. Chafetz\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Account of how A research psychologist's guide to increased mental ability. Chafetz stresses the former president importance of proper sleep, nutrition, and physical fitness, and first lady made the transition from the White House negative aspects of drugs. He focuses on ways to Plainsenlarge both memory and mental capacity, Georgia. In this joint narrative with individual interjections when recollections or interpretations differto expand language and creative skills, the Carters tell of their involvement in a host of projects and volunteerismto increase logic. Includes suggested brain exercises. **1992**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.25995detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/36407|DB 2599536407]] - Read by Mitzi FriedlanderRichard Hauenstein. Reading time : 7 hours, 1 minute31 minutes. |
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**Author:** Peter Chew\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A journalist examines the numerous problems and pitfalls that confront men in their middle years and suggests positive ways to face the future. **1976**.\\ |
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* [[RC 16153]] |
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=== How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Brent Cole; Dale Carnegie & Associates\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This update to //How to Win Friends and Influence People// ([[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/53469|DB 53469]]), offered seventy-five years after the original was published, incorporates successful use of social media. Details easy-to-employ strategies for productive conversations and collaborations in business and personal life. Discusses ways to communicate, lead, and work well with others. **2011**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/75355|DB 75355]] - Read by Jeff Allin. Reading time: 7 hours, 24 minutes. |
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**Author:** Pat Collins with John Malone\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Undertakes to replace traditional rules of correct behavior and etiquette with guidelines designed to convey "niceness" without interfering with one's own priorities. "Don't let people take advantage of your purse, connections, talent, knowledge, time, and energy," she counsels. She believes that nice people have rights too. **1983**.\\ |
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* [[RC 21306]] |
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=== The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Charles Duhigg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
New York Times reporter draws on academic studies, interviews with scientists, and industry research to explore habit formation in individuals, organizations, and societies. Argues that by understanding habits, we can change them. Examines how changing habit loops affected the outcomes for Alcoholics Anonymous members, Target shoppers, and others. **2012**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74596|DB 74596]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 11 hours, 36 minutes. |
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=== The Sky's the Limit === |
**Author:** Wayne W. Dyer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explains how we can achieve heights of happiness and fulfillment by developing our human potential. Advises that we adopt a no-limit attitude to personal achievement, "accept our animal nature, and retain the fantasy and candor of childhood." **1980**.\\ |
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* [[RC 15805]] |
**Author:** Wayne W. Dyer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author of //Your Erroneous Zones// and //Pulling Your Own Strings// gives the reader a set of directions for personal transformation. He argues that the human being is a spirit in a body, not a body with a spirit, and emphasizes spiritual experience. Using examples and anecdotes, he describes why and how to visualize what you want from life. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.30718|DB 30718]] - Read by Andy Chappell. Reading time: 9 hours, 28 minutes. |
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**Author:** Richard Eyre and Linda Eyre\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors, who have nine children, run several businesses, revel in the arts, and enjoy life, reveal their "secret"--the ability to balance work and family life. The underlying theme encompasses thinking and rethinking one's priorities and suggests innovative approaches to living life to its fullest. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[RC 27687]] |
**Author:** Julius Fast and Barbara Fast\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Understanding and using metacommunication-- how we say what we say. Analyzes the effects of breath, pitch, stress, rhythm, tone, inflection, word choice, and emotional overlay in communicating. **1979**.\\ |
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* [[RC 16052]] |
**Author:** Robert Fulghum\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A retired Unitarian minister presents his thoughts and observations on the joy of life. The essays cover such topics as: the joys of Crayolas, Beethoven's Ninth Symphony, jumper cables, a shoebox of childhood momentoes, and the author's wife. A frequently quoted maxim, from a kindergarten graduation speech, is "When you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together." **1988**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.28047|DB 28047]] - Read by Harry Elders. Reading time: 3 hours, 18 minutes. |
* [[BR 07700]] - 1 volume. |
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**Author:** Robert Fulghum\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
From the author who reminded us that all we really need to know we learned in kindergarten. Fulghum writes about the joy of climbing trees; about the things "grown-ups" do (such as cleaning sink strainers and plunging out toilets); about Rosa Parks, a black woman, who began the Montgomery bus boycott; and about children. He advises, "Love them long, and let them go early." **1989**.\\ |
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* [[RC https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30956|DB 30956]] - Read by John Rayburn. Reading time: 3 hours, 52 minutes. |
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**Author:** Thomas A. Harris\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A popular approach to psychological self-help based on the theory that each person contains three active elements: the Parent, the Adult, and the Child. The goal of transactional analysis is to achieve a healthy balance of these elements, freeing the Adult from the archaic recordings of the Parent and the Child. **1969**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.14830|DB 14830]] - Read by John Stratton. Reading time: 9 hours, 47 minutes. |
* [[BR 01880]] - 4 volumes. |
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**Author:** Naura Hayden\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Self-help work that emphasizes reevaluation of habits that drain physical, mental, and emotional energy. Suggests ways of changing these bad habits and developing a reservoir of energy. **1976**.\\ |
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* [[RC 12056]] |
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=== Solving the Self-Esteem Puzzle: A Guide for Moving from Piece to Peace === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** \\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A blind mental-health counselor offers advice on improving self-awareness, focusing on the effect self-esteem has on personal relationships, on how we feel about our environment, and on life's meaning. She guides the reader through introspective examination of the component parts of life, endeavoring to fit the puzzle pieces together. Contains explicit sexual terms. **1991**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/34984|DB 34984]] - Read by Miriam Wagner. Reading time 4 hours, 22 minutes. |
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=== You Are Not the Target ==== |
**Author:** Laura Archera Huxley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practical guide to self-improvement that includes "recipes" for living and loving. The author applies psychological principles and oriental philosophy and other means to spur the reader on to better mental and physical health. The foreword is written by the author's husband, Aldous Huxley. **1963**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 12762]] |
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==== Half the House ==== |
**Author:** Herbert Kohl\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The educator and author of //36 Children// provides a look at his painful journey toward personal liberation. He confronts the question of whether one can live a healthy life in an unhealthy society and whether it is possible to change oneself in midlife. **1974**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 10044]] |
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==== Listening as a Way of Becoming ==== |
**Author:** Earl Koile\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Importance of effective listening in terms of its positive results on both the person expressing thoughts and the person hearing them. Suggestions are offered on ways to overcome barriers and become more sensitive. **1977**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 11823]] |
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==== When Bad Things Happen to Good People ==== |
**Author:** Harold S. Kushner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Impelled by personal tragedy in his own life, the author, a rabbi, helps others cope with grief, guilt, rage, bitterness, and bewilderment at God's "unfairness." In his search for answers to why tragedies seemingly strike those undeserving of them, he offers comfort and reassurance to the troubled. **1978**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.48900|DB 48900]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 5 hours, 13 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/16801detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16801|BR 16801]] - 1 volume. |
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==== Watersheds: Mastering Life's Unpredictable Crises ==== |
**Author:** Robert H. Lauer and Jeanette C. Lauer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The two social scientists interviewed more than six hundred people to learn how they managed what the Lauers term "watersheds": unforeseen, life-altering events and experiences. Includes a multitude of examples of how people successfully cope with change. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 27733]] |
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==== Working Smart: How to Accomplish More in Half the Time ==== |
**Author:** Michael LeBouef\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How to get more done in less time and with less hassle. Teaches how to set specific goals on a daily, intermediate, and lifetime basis, and how to analyze and revise use of time accordingly. **1979**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 14369]] |
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==== A Better Way to Live ==== |
**Author:** Og Mandino\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
At age thirty-five, the author was a derelict who came very close to spending his last few dollars on a gun with which he planned to kill himself. Mandino explains what prevented his suicide, and then offers "Seventeen Rules to Live By" that he hopes will help everyone avoid living even one more day feeling failure, grief, poverty, shame, or self-pity. **1990**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30865|DB 30865]] - Read by John Rayburn. Reading time: 2 hours, 59 minutes. |
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==== How to Be Awake and Alive ==== |
**Author:** Mildred Newman & Bernard Berkowitz\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How the perceptions and judgments of childhood can be harmful if they are not consciously updated. Advice is given on types of attitudes and how to shake free of them. Includes abbreviated case histories. **1975**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 11590]] |
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==== How to Be Your Own Best Friend: A Conversation with Two Psychoanalysts ==== |
**Author:** Mildred Newman & Bernard Berkowitz with Jean Owen\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
These practicing psychoanalysts believe that everyone can help himself by learning to be aware of his own accomplishments, by having compassion for himself, and by praising himself for achievement. Aims to help the reader feel more responsible for his own fate and more capable of directing it. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[BR 02324]] - 1 volume. |
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==== The Art of Learning to Love Yourself ==== |
**Author:** Cecil G. Osborne\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Popular-psychology guide by a former clergyman offers positive procedures for creating a better self-image and achieving a greater degree of self-love and self-approval. **1976**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 11817]] |
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==== The Mind Goes Forth: The Drama of Understanding ==== |
**Author:** Harry Overstreet and Bonaro Overstreet\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A study of mutual understanding among human beings, and how it can be achieved. The authors conceive of understanding as a freedom-making process, within the reach of everyone, which liberates individuals, groups, and nations from the hostilities and extremisms that separate man from man. **1956**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 10866]] |
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==== The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values, and Spiritual Growth ==== |
**Author:** M. Scott Peck\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Twenty-fifth anniversary edition of the 1978 classic psychological treatise concerning spirituality, self-actualization, maturation, and interpersonal relationships. Emphasizes mental and spiritual growth, love, and self-discipline. **1978**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.55631|DB 55631]] - Read by Jack Fox. Reading time: 11 hours, 28 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/14516detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/14516|BR 14516]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Further Along the Road Less Traveled: The Unending Journey Toward Spiritual Growth: The Edited Lectures ==== |
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**Author:** M. Scott Peck\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Continuing with the messages put forth in //The Road Less Traveled//, Peck lectures as both psychiatrist and spiritual guide. He stresses striving for self-love rather than self-esteem and proposes that being disillusioned and being confused are actually signs of mental health. Some strong language. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.37302|DB 37302]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 8 hours, 25 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09391detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09391|BR 09391]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== On Lonely Street with God ==== |
**Author:** Duane Pederson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, publisher of an underground Christian publication, offers Jesus Christ as the solution to personal problems, especially loneliness. He combines his own experience with articles reprinted from his newspaper. **1973**.\\ |
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==== The Peter Prescription: How to Be Creative, Confident & Competent ==== |
**Author:** Laurence J. Peter\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author presents 66 prescriptions for making things go right. High on the list are the "Peter Peacemaker," or taking a daily vacation, and advice for avoiding the "Incompetence Treadmill." **1972**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 10690]] |
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==== Looking Out for Number One ==== |
**Author:** Robert J. Ringer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Brash, cynical guidebook outlines startling ideas for leading a life filled with more pleasure and fewer complications. **1977**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.10833|DB 10833]] - Read by Bob Butz. Reading time: 9 hours, 57 minutes. |
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==== Rogers' Rules for Businesswomen: How to Start a Career and Move Up the Ladder ==== |
**Author:** Henry C. Rogers\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
From the choice to pursue a career through the major decisions that a woman will make in the business world, Rogers offers inspirational and practical advice. He draws on his own perspective as head of a major PR firm, and his experiences with female associates and friends. His approach focuses on achieving personal excellence and exercising sound judgment. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 30069]] |
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=== The Gift of Adversity: The Unexpected Benefits of Life's Difficulties, Setbacks, and Imperfectionse === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Norman E. Rosenthal\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychiatrist posits that to navigate life successfully one must encounter--and overcome--difficulties. Uses the experiences of his patients, colleagues, and his own Jewish childhood in 1950s apartheid South Africa to illustrate methods and techniques for dealing with challenges. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/77939|DB 77939]] - Read by Kurt Elftmann. Reading time 10 hours, 52 minutes. |
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=== When Am I Going to Be Happy?: How to Break the Emotional Bad Habits That Make You Miserable ==== |
**Author:** Penelope Russianoff\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide to help readers combat "emotional bad habits" such as depression, guilt, inferiority, anger, and phobias. Stating that we are conditioned into these ways of thinking by society, Russianoff says the habits can be changed by correcting the erroneous thinking that causes them in the first place. **1988**.\\ |
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=== Learned Optimism === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Martin E.P. Seligman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The Blessing director of clinical training in psychology at the University of Pennsylvania asserts that pessimists tend to view the causes of adversity as permanent and personal, while optimists view them as temporary and impersonal. Stressing that optimists fare better in life, he suggests ways to change negative attitudes into positive ones in all areas--family, work, health, politics, and religion. **1991**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/33060|DB 33060]] - Read by Lou Harpenau. Reading time: 12 hours, 5 minutes. |
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=== What You Can Change and What You Can't: The Complete Guide to Successful Self-Improvement === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Martin E.P. Seligman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Seligman believes certain traits are ingrained and unchangeable, while others can be altered. He examines phobias, depression, obesity, addiction, and sexual orientation, among other types of behavior, and analyzes them in terms of whether they can be altered. He suggests what he considers the most effective methods for those that can be changed. Explicit descriptions of sex. **1993**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/38319|DB 38319]] - Read by Bruce Huntey. Reading time: 11 hours, 39 minutes. |
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=== The Blessing === |
**Author:** Gary Smalley & John Trent\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Discusses the importance of "the blessin," that is, the approval received from our parents, and how it affects the way we feel about ourselves and others. Also details in religious and psychological terms how to overcome the lack of "the blessing" in our lives. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27180|DB 27180]] - Read by Butch Hoover. Reading time: 7 hours, 34 minutes. |
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==== Sweet Success: How to Understand the Men in Your Business Life--and Win with Your Own Rules ==== |
**Author:** Kathryn B. Stechert\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An analysis of gender differences, how they operate to the advantage of men in the business world, and how women can overcome the disadvantage of being female in a world "created by men for men." **1986**.\\ |
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==== Revolution from Within: A Book of Self-Esteem ==== |
**Author:** Gloria Steinem\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A co-founder of "Ms." magazine and outspoken feminist, Steinem her confronts internal barriers to women's equality. She examines the experiences of individual men and women; researches self-help books; and, recognizing that "Good writers write to find out about themselves--and it lasts forever," she finally listens to herself. **1992**.\\ |
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* [[RC https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/34110|DB 34110]] - Read by Mitzi Friedlander. Reading time: 13 hours, 39 minutes. |
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==== Living a Beautiful Life: Five Hundred Ways to Add Elegance, Order, Beauty, and Joy to Every Day of Your Life ==== |
**Author:** Alexandra Stoddard\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The renowned interior designer offers her prescription for a life lived "vitally and beautifully." Stoddard believes that "only by paying careful attention to the simple details of daily tasks and to our immediate surroundings" can we achieve joy and serenity in day-to-day existence. **1986**.\\ |
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==== Solitude: A Return to the Self ==== |
**Author:** Anthony Storr\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychotherapist Storr takes issue with the idea that intimate relationships are the exclusive source of mental and personal satisfaction. He reasons that many creative people work alone and that voluntary and enforced solitude may have a restorative value through which individuals may achieve happiness even when their interpersonal relationships are inferior. **1988**.\\ |
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==== Positive Illusions: Creative Self-Deception and the Healthy Mind ==== |
**Author:** Shelley E. Taylor\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
"The human mind distorts incoming information in a positive direction." This is the conclusion reached by a psychology professor from her study of people recovering from tragic situations. She discusses how this tendency toward positive bias helps maintain mental and physical health, promotes creativity, and increases the likelihood of success in the workplace. **1989**.\\ |
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==== Alphagenics: How to Use Your Brain Waves to Improve Your Life ==== |
**Author:** Anthony A. Zaffuto & Mary Q. Zaffuto\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A do-it-yourself book for the layman on self-regulation of mind and body through the inducement of the alpha state, those waves emitted by the brain during the state of deep relaxation prior to sleep. **1974**.\\ |
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* [[RC 08050]] |
**Author:** Letitia Baldrige\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, a leading authority on etiquette and one-time chief of staff for former first lady Jacqueline Kennedy, provides an abundance of ideas, suggestions, and advice for improving one's social life. Included are tips on making conversation, meeting people, making friends, entertaining, and re-establishing a social life after divorce or a spouse's death. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07404]] - 4 volumes. |
**Author:** David D. Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help manual for achieving self-confidence. Assuming that thoughts have an impact on the way we feel and behave, the author suggests ways to overcome shyness and depression and explores the role of intimacy in our lives. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 23228]] |
**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author celebrates the here and now with the ultimate message that "life is wonderful, joy is our birthright and love is what it's all about." **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 23902]] - **IN PROCESS** |
**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This book is an extension of an experimental class that the author created at the University of Southern California. His basic message is that while the need to love and to be loved is innate, the way we love is learned, and that every single person can learn to love. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 18663]] |
**Author:** Ken Druck with James C. Simmons\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Masculinity, according to the authors, is a very fragile thing. Men have to work at hiding their feelings, maintaining machismo, and letting women know who is the boss. Because Dr. Druck believes that unacknowledged emotions are disabling to men, he offers this step-by-step course of renewal and self-understanding with insights into the male psyche. Some strong language. **1985**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06418]] - 2 volumes. |
**Author:** Robert Fulghum\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A retired Unitarian minister presents his thoughts and observations on the joy of life. The essays cover such topics as: the joys of Crayolas, Beethoven's Ninth Symphony, jumper cables, a shoebox of childhood momentoes, and the author's wife. A frequently quoted maxim, from a kindergarten graduation speech, is "When you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together." **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.28047|DB 28047]] - Read by Harry Elders. Reading time: 3 hours, 18 minutes. |
* [[BR 07700]] - 1 volume. |
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**Author:** Thomas A. Harris\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A popular approach to psychological self-help based on the theory that each person contains three active elements: the Parent, the Adult, and the Child. The goal of transactional analysis is to achieve a healthy balance of these elements, freeing the Adult from the archaic recordings of the Parent and the Child. **1971**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.14830|DB 14830]] - Read by John Stratton. Reading time: 9 hours, 47 minutes. |
* [[BR 01880]] - 4 volumes. |
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**Author:** Barry Kaufman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Details the principles and application of the Option Process, for those who want a more loving and life-affirming basis for their lives. Kaufman uses dialogues to illustrate that one always has choices, and basically one can choose to be happy. **1977**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07057]] - 3 volumes. |
**Author:** Harold S. Kushner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Impelled by personal tragedy in his own life, the author, a rabbi, helps others cope with grief, guilt, rage, bitterness, and bewilderment at God's "unfairness." In his search for answers to why tragedies seemingly strike those undeserving of them, he offers comfort and reassurance to the troubled. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.48900|DB 48900]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 5 hours, 13 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/16801detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16801|BR 16801]] - 1 volume. |
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=== Escaping the Hostility Trap === |
**Author:** Milton Layden\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Shows how to free oneself of resentful feelings, not by repression, but by a simple anti-hostility therapy. **1977**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 04455]] - 3 volumes. |
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**Author:** Michael LeBouef\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How to get more done in less time and with less hassle. Teaches how to set specific goals on a daily, intermediate, and lifetime basis, and how to analyze and revise use of time accordingly. **1979**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 14369]] |
**Author:** Mortimer Levitt\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A personal approach to the art of living well by a self-made millionaire and frequent lecturer on the subject of image. Levitt, a high school dropout who says he was born on the wrong side of the tracks, equates class with integrity and distinguishes between the appurtenances and the substance of class. He divides his practical advice into four categories: what you say, how you say it, how you look, and how you live. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 05980]] - 2 volumes. |
**Author:** Maxwell Maltz\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Dr. Maltz demonstrates, step-by-step, how to stop dwelling on unhappiness and focus on achievement. His attempts to bring commonsense to his discussions include examples for goal-building, self-understanding, and seizing opportunities. **1973**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 02295]] - 2 volumes. |
**Author:** W. Hugh Missildine\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In layman's terms a psychiatrist discusses how individuals can deal with the childhood experiences that affect their adult lives. **1963**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 03483]] - 3 volumes. |
**Author:** Mildred Newman & Bernard Berkowitz with Jean Owen\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
These practicing psychoanalysts believe that everyone can help himself by learning to be aware of his own accomplishments, by having compassion for himself, and by praising himself for achievement. Aims to help the reader feel more responsible for his own fate and more capable of directing it. **1986**.\\ |
* [[RC 16481]] |
* [[BR 02324]] - 1 volume. |
**Author:** Jesse S. Nirenberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Instructs the reader in developing communication skills in business and in private life. Describes how to capture a listener's attention, how to anticipate obstacles, and how to persuade others. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06052]] - 2 volumes. |
**Author:** Carol Orsborn\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A manual that is part autobiography, part self-help guide in which Orsborn shares her own experience as a recovering superwoman and looks at the lives of women today. Her message advocates that women who have achieved career success scale down their expectations in order to enjoy life more fully. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06819]] - 2 volumes. |
**Author:** M. Scott Peck\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Twenty-fifth anniversary edition of the 1978 classic psychological treatise concerning spirituality, self-actualization, maturation, and interpersonal relationships. Emphasizes mental and spiritual growth, love, and self-discipline. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.55631|DB 55631]] - Read by Jack Fox. Reading time: 11 hours, 28 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/14516detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/14516|BR 14516]] - 3 volumes. |
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**Author:** M. Scott Peck\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Continuing with the messages put forth in //The Road Less Traveled//, Peck lectures as both psychiatrist and spiritual guide. He stresses striving for self-love rather than self-esteem and proposes that being disillusioned and being confused are actually signs of mental health. Some strong language. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.37302|DB 37302]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 8 hours, 25 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09391detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09391|BR 09391]] - 2 volumes. |
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**Author:** Laurence J. Peter & Bill Dana\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author of the bestselling //Peter Principle// teams up with humorist Bill Dana to prescribe laughter as the best medicine. Rather than a bitter pill, they recommend humor as preventive medicine for physiological and psychological health. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/05340detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/05340|BR 05340]] - 2 volumes. |
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**Author:** Laurence J. Peter\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author presents 66 prescriptions for making things go right. High on the list are the "Peter Peacemaker," or taking a daily vacation, and advice for avoiding the "Incompetence Treadmill." **1972**.\\ |
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* [[RC 10690]] |
**Author:** Chuck Reaves\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An intriguing business concept that asserts for every person who will say yes, there are twenty who will say no. For a positive response you must find the twenty-first person who will say yes. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 05675]] - 1 volume. |
**Author:** William John Reilly\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Written by the founder and director of the National Institute for Straight Thinking, this book examines the problems arising from the pace and complexity of modern life. **1964**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 00061]] - 1 volume. |
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===== Self Development Relationships ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Playing the GameBeyond Codependency: A Psychopolitical Strategy for Your Career And Getting Better All the Time === |
**Author:** Raymond BlankMelody Beattie\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author contends that ability, dedication, and competence are not sufficient As a follow-up to guarantee success or even survival //Codependent No More// ([[RC 28220]]) in which Beattie discussed stopping the work world. He sets forth the essential political pain of codependency and interpersonal skills an employee needs gaining control of one's life, she now addresses the topic of self care--what to manipulate subordinatesdo when the pain has stopped. Using case histories, peersshe discusses topics such as recovery and relapse, breaking free, dealing with shame, overcoming fatal attractions, and supervisors successfullydealing with the fear of commitment. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 17189https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31290|DB 31290]] - Read by Patricia McDermott. Reading time 7 hours, 59 minutes. |
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=== HomecomingCodependent No More: Reclaiming How to Stop Controlling Others and Championing Your Inner Child Start Caring for Yourself === |
**Author:** John BradshawMelody Beattie\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A counselorCodependents--those who spend too much time and energy worrying about chemically dependent people--are, theologianaccording to the author, and television personality claims that many sometimes sicker than the people harbor a wounded inner child with leftover feelings from past hurts. This inner child can contaminate an individual's life addicted to drugs and cause overreactionsalcohol. They become hostile, marital problemscontrolling, addictions, toxic parentingand manipulative as they try to protect themselves, and destructive relationshipsyet they don't seem to realize that they too have a problem. He describes how The book attempts to heal help codependents stop the wounded child withinpain and gain control of their lives. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.31960|DB 3196028220]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 12 hours, 33 minutes.**IN PROCESS** |
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=== The Magic of Believing New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Claude M. BristolMelody Beattie\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A hardfollow-headed businessman and skeptical newspaper man tells how up to get whatever you want in life by harnessing the unlimited power classic //Codependent No More// (DB 28220) explains that codependency is a pattern of behavior rather than an illness. Using examples from her own life, Beattie discusses analyzing one's actions and offers enabling techniques to set boundaries and take better care of your subconscious mindoneself. **2009**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 19698https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/68362|DB 68362]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 10 hours, 6 minutes. |
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=== Intimate ConnectionsBeing a Man: The New and Clinically Tested Program for Overcoming Loneliness Developed at the Presbyterian - University Paradox of Pennsylvania Medical Center Masculinity === |
**Author:** David DDonald H. BurnsBell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help manual for achieving self-confidence. Assuming that thoughts have an impact on Looks at the way we feel changes in the lives of men brought about by the sexual revolution and behave, the feminist movement. Based on the authorsuggests ways to overcome shyness 's own experiences and depression and explores the role of intimacy in our liveson interviews with middle-class men. **1982**.\\ |
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* [[RC 2322819727]] |
* [[BR 06235]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Bus 9 to ParadiseIntimate Secrets: A Loving Voyage Which to Keep and Which to Tell === |
**Author:** Leo BuscagliaKaren Blaker\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author celebrates How we communicate our secrets--the here and now with the ultimate message that "life is wonderfulunknown facts about ourselves, joy is our birthright feelings, needs, dreams, and love desires--is what it's all abouta key to surmising the level of our mental maturity. So says psychologist Blaker, who maintains that most people communicate too little or too much. Her aim is to show how to reach the middle ground of mental health that lies between these two extremes. **1986**."\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 23902RC 25330]]- **IN PROCESS** |
* [[BR 06541]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== LivingSmart Women, Loving & Learning Foolish Choices: Finding the Right Men and Avoiding the Wrong Ones === |
**Author:** Leo BuscagliaConnell Cowan & Melvyn Kinder\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Series of lectures originally delivered between 1970 Two Beverly Hills psychologists analyze the successes and 1981 on the need failures of people women looking for one anotheracceptable men. Includes stories and anecdotes illustrating the joys and pitfalls They suggest that the search for love entails today's accomplished, discriminating women should 'become more realistic in these troubled timestheir expectations if they want to form close long-term relationships with men. Reassuring self-help philosophy**1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.17739detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21543|DB 1773921543]] - Read by Bob AskeyButz. Reading time: 8 5 hours, 14 48 minutes. |
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=== How Women Men Love/Women Men Leave: Why Men Are Drawn to Women; What Makes Them Want to Win Friends and Influence People Stay === |
**Author:** Dale CarnegieConnell Cowan & Melvyn Kinder\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Originally published in 1937 The authors believe that men and revised in 1981 to "clarify women view love differently and strengthen that if women understand the book for a modern readerdifference, " this guide provides fundamental techniques in handling peoplethey can secure the kind of lasting relationships they want. Includes how to make people like youIn particular, how to win them to your way the authors examine those attitudes and behaviors of thinking, women that destroy intimacy with men and how to be a leader without offending or arousing resentmentthose that foster it. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.53469|DB 53469RC 31425]] |
* [[BR 07078]] - Read by Jack Fox. Reading time: 8 hours, 28 minutes2 volumes. |
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=== Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know === |
**Author:** Barbara De Angelis\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author believes that a woman has three choices in dealing with men: get angry and complain, give them up, or learn everything there is to know about them so you can have a wonderful relationship. Her secrets include the six biggest mistakes women make with men, the three biggest mysteries about men, the top twenty sexual turn-offs for men, and ways to communicate with men. **1990**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31291|DB 31291]] - Read by Madelyn Buzzard. Reading time: 7 hours, 47 minutes. |
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=== Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places: Overcoming Romantic and Sexual Addictions === |
**Author:** Jed Diamond\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Guide to understanding and overcoming destructive romantic attachments. Diamond, a psychotherapist specializing in addiction, explains the characteristics of love addiction, illustrates the phenomenon through real-life examples, and includes a candid description of his own former addictive behavior. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28538]] |
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=== Sexual Chemistry: What It Is, How to Win Friends Use It === |
**Author:** Julius Fast and Influence People Meredith Bernstein\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors believe that sexual chemistry is not an intangible factor, but a process that anyone may learn to develop and use. They also assert that it is the sum of tensions and vibrations that communicates attraction between people. Includes interviews with men and women and what attracts them. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 20143]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/05660|BR 05660]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Men Are Just Desserts === |
**Author:** Sonya Friedman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Advice for liberated women from a clinical psychologist known for her radio and TV shows. Dr. Friedman holds that men are the delicious final course in the Digital Age feast of life for a woman who knows that she herself is the main course. She also tells how to make your husband a true partner, how to achieve real intimacy, and how to pull yourself out of the dependency trap. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 21643]] |
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=== Smart Cookies Don't Crumble: A Modern Woman's Guide to Living and Loving Her Own Life === |
**Author:** Sonya Friedman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practicing psychologist examines the excuses and myths she believes women often use to avoid taking charge of their own lives. She offers woman of all ages and backgrounds advice on mining their individual strengths to shape more promising futures. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/22965|DB 22965]] - Read by Madelyn Buzzard. Reading time: 6 hours, 58 minutes. |
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=== Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Brent Cole; Dale Carnegie & AssociatesJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This update Therapist Gray describes what he perceives to //How to Win Friends be fundamental differences in how men and Influence People// (DB 53469), offered seventy-five years after women communicate. Provided are instructions on translating what the original was published, incorporates successful use of social media. Details easy-to-employ strategies for productive conversations other sex is saying and collaborations responding in business and personal lifean appropriate manner to improve relationships. Discusses ways to communicate, lead, and work well with others**1992**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.75355detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/35918|DB 7535535918]] - Read by Jeff AllinErik Sandvold. Reading time: 7 9 hours, 24 19 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09230|BR 09230]] - 3 volumes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/17778|BR 17778]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Everything to Gain: Making Getting the Most of the Rest of Your Life Love You Want: A Guide for Couples === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Jimmy Carter and Rosalynn CarterHarville Hendrix\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Account of how the former president A marriage therapist and first lady made the transition from the White House pastoral counselor shows how to Plains, Georgia. In this joint narrative with individual interjections when recollections or interpretations differ, transform the Carters tell marital relationship into a lasting source of their involvement in love. He describes how to change confrontational habits learned as children into techniques that promote mutual growth and healing. He recommends a host series of projects ten exercises that will help couples gain insight and volunteerismresolve problems. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.25995detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31202|DB 2599531202]] - Read by Mitzi FriedlanderHarold Parker. Reading time : 7 10 hours, 1 minute17 minutes. |
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=== = Braille ==== |
=== Letitia Baldrige's Complete Guide to a Great Social Life Living Together, Feeling Alone: Healing Your Hidden Loneliness === |
**Author:** Letitia BaldrigeDan Kiley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authorAdmitting that he is more successful treating women than men, Kiley offers several options for the "Living Together Loneliness" syndrome that many women experience. He identifies the guilt-provoking feelings so many women have and then guides readers through a leading authority on etiquette and onefive-time chief step program of staff for former first lady Jacqueline Kennedysurrender, provides an abundance of ideaswithdrawal, suggestionsreevaluation, reemergence, and advice for improving one's social life. Included are tips discovery, based on making conversationthe principles of truth, meeting people, making friends, entertaininghope, and re-establishing a social life after divorce or a spouse's deathlove. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07404RC 31518]]- 4 volumes. |
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=== Intimate Connections: The New and Clinically Tested Program for Overcoming Loneliness Developed at the Presbyterian - University of Pennsylvania Medical Center Wendy Dilemma: When Women Stop Mothering Their Men === |
**Author:** David D. BurnsDan Kiley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help manual for achieving self-confidence. Assuming that thoughts have an impact on the way we feel and behave, the The author suggests ways of //The Peter Pan Syndrome// tells how to overcome shyness and depression and explores break the role habit of intimacy mothering the men in our your life without being rejected. Kiley sees mothering wives as those who adopt attitudes and behaviors that make them feel in control of the lives of men, because they lack a sense of mastery over their own lives. He offers practical, commonsense advice on caring for a man without falling into the trap of taking over as his mother. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 2322821201]] |
* [[BR 06235]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Bus 9 What to ParadiseDo When He Won't Change: A Loving Voyage Getting What You Need from the Man You Love === |
**Author:** Leo BuscagliaDan Kiley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The Bestselling author celebrates the here and now with the ultimate message that "life is wonderful, joy is our birthright psychotherapist Dan Kiley provides advice and love is what it's all aboutguidelines for women who want to change their men and make them more sensitive and responsive. **1987**."\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 23902RC 27204]]- **IN PROCESS** |
* [[BR 06541]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love with You === |
**Author:** Leo BuscagliaEllen Kreidman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This book Kreidman's theory is an extension that a man falls in love with a woman because of an experimental class that the author created at the University of Southern Californiaway he feels when he is with her. His basic message is that while the need She offers suggestions on how to love communicate with your man and make him a sex object, how to be loved is innate, the way we love is learnedexpress feelings and create moods, and that every single person can learn how to lovekeep his fire lit forever. **1991**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 18663https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30551|DB 30551]] - Read by Ilona Dulaski. Reading time 5 hours, 41 minutes. |
* [[BR 0517108108]] - 1 volume2 volumes. |
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=== The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships === |
**Author:** Harriet Goldhor Lerner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A staff psychologist at the Menninger Foundation emphasizes that women have more trouble dealing with anger than men do. Because culture has taught women to be mediators in relationships, she argues, they often fail to express their anger for fear of rocking the boat. Lerner shows readers ways to deal more effectually with anger. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27934|DB 27934]] - Read by Patricia McDermott. Reading time: 6 hours, 59 minutes. |
* [[BR 06419]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== The Inner World Dance of the Middle-Aged Man =Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships === |
**Author:** Peter ChewHarriet Goldhor Lerner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A journalist examines Although directed toward a female audience, this self-help guide can be useful to males as well. Picking up where //Dance of Anger// left off, the numerous problems and pitfalls that confront men in their middle years and suggests author details how difficult change can be. By using case histories, Lerner shows how to make positive ways moves within day-toface the future-day relationships with spouses, parents, siblings, and lovers. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 16153https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/29052|DB 29052]] - Read by Patricia McDermott. Reading time: 7 hours, 20 minutes. |
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=== = The Friendship Factor: How to Be a Really Nice Person: Doing Get Closer to the Right Thing--Your Way =People You Care For === |
**Author:** Pat Collins with John MaloneAlan Loy McGinnis\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Undertakes to replace traditional rules of correct behavior The author presents ways in which people can get close and etiquette with guidelines designed stay close to convey "niceness" without interfering with one's own prioritiespeople they like. "Don't let people take advantage of Included is information on ways to deepen your purserelationships, connectionsguidelines for cultivating intimacy, talent, knowledge, timeways to handle negative emotions, and energy," she counselswhat to do when a relationship goes bad. She believes that nice people have rights too**1979**.\\ |
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* [[RC 2130628873]] |
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=== = The Secrets Men Keep =Letters from Women Who Love Too Much: A Closer Look at Relationship Addiction and Recovery === |
**Author:** Ken Druck with James C. SimmonsRobin Norwood\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Masculinity, according Collection of letters-to-theauthors, is a very fragile thing. Men have to work at hiding their feelings, maintaining machismo, and letting women know who is -author inspired by the bossbestselling //Women Who Love Too Much// ([[https://nlsbard.Because Drloc.Druck believes gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/22991|DB 22991]]). The author amplifies her basic theory, that some women become "addicted" to either long-term or serial relationships that unacknowledged emotions are disabling destructive to men, he offers this step-by-step course of renewal their mental and selfphysical well-understanding with insights into the male psychebeing. Some strong language**1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06418https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27603|DB 27603]] - 2 volumesRead by Rita Hottois. Reading time 11 hours, 58 minutes. |
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=== = The SkyWomen Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He's the Limit =ll Change === |
**Author:** Wayne W. DyerRobin Norwood\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explains how we can achieve heights of happiness and fulfillment by developing our human potential. Advises The author believes that we adopt this work will help anyone who loves too much, though she asserts that it is written for women because loving too much is primarily a no-limit attitude female phenomenon. Its purpose is to personal achievementhelp women recognize destructive patterns of relating to men, "accept our animal natureunderstand their origins, and retain gain the fantasy and candor of childhoodtools for changing their lives. **1985**."\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 15805https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/22991|DB 22991]] - Read by Madelyn Buzzard. Reading time: 9 hours, 58 minutes. |
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=== = You'll See It When You Believe It =How to Make Love to Each Other === |
**Author:** Wayne W. DyerAlexandra Penney\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author of //Your Erroneous Zones// and //Pulling Your Own Strings// gives the reader a set of directions for personal transformation. He argues Suggests ways that both sexes can better understand the human being is a spirit in a bodyother emotionally and physically. Gives detailed information on establishing and maintaining intimacy, not a body with a spiritkeeping romance alive, talking about desires and emphasizes spiritual experience. Using examples feelings, and anecdotesovercoming fears about performance, body image, he describes why and how other common barriers to visualize what you want from lifeintimacy. Some explicit descriptions of sex. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.30718|DB 30718RC 20599]]- Read by Andy Chappell. Reading time: 9 hours, 28 minutes. |
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==== Lifebalance: Priority Balance, Attitude Balance, Goal Balance in All Areas of Your Life Braille ==== |
=== Coping with Difficult People === |
**Author:** Richard Eyre and Linda EyreRobert M. Bramson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authorsA practicing psychologist offers field-tested techniques for identifying, who have nine childrenunderstanding, run several businesses, revel and coping with seven problematic personality types in the artsworkaday world. The categories include hostile-aggressives, and enjoy lifecomplainers, reveal their "secret"super-agreeables, negativists, indecisives, know-the ability to balance work it-alls, and family lifethe silent type. The underlying theme encompasses thinking and rethinking one's priorities and suggests innovative approaches to living life to its fullest**1981**.\\ |
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=== = Talking Between the LinesWomen Men Love/Women Men Leave: How We Mean More Than We Say =Why Men Are Drawn to Women; What Makes Them Want to Stay === |
**Author:** Julius Fast and Barbara FastConnell Cowan & Melvyn Kinder\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Understanding The authors believe that men and using metacommunication-- how we say what we say. Analyzes women view love differently and that if women understand the effects difference, they can secure the kind of breath, pitch, stress, rhythm, tone, inflection, word choicelasting relationships they want. In particular, the authors examine those attitudes and emotional overlay in communicatingbehaviors of women that destroy intimacy with men and those that foster it. **1987**.\\ |
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=== = All I Really Need Sexual Chemistry: What It Is, How to Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things =Use It === |
**Author:** Robert FulghumJulius Fast and Meredith Bernstein\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A retired Unitarian minister presents his thoughts and observations on the joy of life. The essays cover such topics as: the joys of Crayolas, Beethoven's Ninth Symphony, jumper cablesauthors believe that sexual chemistry is not an intangible factor, but a shoebox of childhood momentoes, process that anyone may learn to develop and the author's wifeuse. A frequently quoted maxim, from a kindergarten graduation speech, They also assert that it is "When you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands sum of tensions and stick togethervibrations that communicates attraction between people. Includes interviews with men and women and what attracts them. **1983**."\\ |
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* [[https://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/db.28047prefix/BR/bookmag/05660|DB 28047]] - Read by Harry Elders. Reading time: 3 hours, 18 minutes. |
* [[BR 0770005660]] - 1 volume2 volumes. |
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=== = It Was on Fire When I Lay Down on It =Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Robert FulghumJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
From the author who reminded us that all we really need Therapist Gray describes what he perceives to know we learned be fundamental differences in kindergartenhow men and women communicate. Fulghum writes about Provided are instructions on translating what the joy of climbing trees; about the things "grown-ups" do (such as cleaning sink strainers other sex is saying and plunging out toilets); about Rosa Parks, a black woman, who began the Montgomery bus boycott; and about childrenresponding in an appropriate manner to improve relationships. He advises, "Love them long, and let them go early**1992**."\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09230|BR 09230]] - 3 volumes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/17778|BR 17778]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== = I'm OK, You're OKCreative Intimacy: A Practical Guide How to Transactional Analysis =Break the Patterns That Poison Your Relationships === |
**Author:** Thomas Jerry A. HarrisGreenwald\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A popular approach to psychological self-help based on the theory that each person contains three active elements: the ParentOutlines clear, the Adult, and the Child. The goal of transactional analysis is to achieve positive steps for discovering intimacy as a healthy balance prime source of these elementsstability, security, freeing the Adult from the archaic recordings of the Parent and the Childemotional nourishment. **1975**.\\ |
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=== = Everything You've Always Wanted How to Know About Energy, But Were Too Weak Break Your Addiction to Ask =a Person === |
**Author:** Naura HaydenHoward M. Halpern\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Self-help work Psychotherapist Halpern finds that emphasizes reevaluation of habits that drain physicalthe three major factors which cause people to remain in unrewarding "love" relationships are practicality, mentalbelief, andemotional energy--most importantly--infant-based "attachment hungers.Suggests ways of changing these bad habits " Halpern suggests that those who are considering "withdrawing" from a relationship keep a detailed diary and developing develop a reservoir network of energyfriends for support. **1982**.\\ |
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=== = You Are Not the Target =The Technique of Handling People: Eleven Helps for Your Human Relations === |
**Author:** Laura Archera HuxleyDonald A. Laird and Eleanor C. Laird\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practical guide Eleven steps are listed to aid in achieving success in human relationships. The authors discuss self-improvement that includes "recipes" for living and loving. The author applies psychological principles and oriental philosophy confidence, friendliness, directness, and other means concepts needed to spur the reader on to better mental overcome hostility and physical healthwin cooperation in dealing with people. The foreword is written by the author's husband, Aldous Huxley**1954**.\\ |
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=== = To Love Is to Be Happy With: The First Book Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Option Process =Patterns of Intimate Relationships === |
**Author:** Barry KaufmanHarriet Goldhor Lerner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Details A staff psychologist at the principles and application of the Option Process, for those who want a Menninger Foundation emphasizes that women have more loving and life-affirming basis for their livestrouble dealing with anger than men do. Kaufman uses dialogues to illustrate that one always Because culture has choices, and basically one can choose taught women to be happymediators in relationships, she argues, they often fail to express their anger for fear of rocking the boat. Lerner shows readers ways to deal more effectually with anger. **1985**.\\ |
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=== = Half the House =Why Can't Men Open Up? Overcoming Men's Fear of Intimacy === |
**Author:** Herbert KohlSteven Naifeh and Gregory White Smith\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The educator and author of //36 Children// provides a look at his painful journey toward personal liberation. He confronts While giving women suggestions on how to lead men to intimacy, the question authors bring out the complicity of whether one can live a healthy life many women in an unhealthy society fostering the closed male. Drawing upon psychological studies, case histories, their own experiences, and whether it is possible to change oneself in midlifeextensive interviews, they avoid simplistic explanations and assert that there no easy solutions. "One must be independent and giving." **1984**.\\ |
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=== = Listening as a Way of Becoming =If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single? Ten Strategies That Will Change Your Love Life Forever === |
**Author:** Earl KoileSusan Page\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Importance A romantic self-help book that is upbeat, practical, and winning. The author is a feminist former director of effective listening in terms of its positive results on both women's programs at the person expressing thoughts University of California at Berkeley and the person hearing thema leader of singles workshops. Suggestions are offered on ways to overcome barriers and become more sensitive**1988**.\\ |
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* [[RC 11823https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07460|BR 07460]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== = When Bad Things Happen to Good People =How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Harold STom Rath and Donald O. KushnerClifton\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Impelled by personal tragedy in his own Grandson-grandfather coauthors present a life , guide based on positive psychology and the author, simple metaphor of a bucket and a rabbidipper, helps which can be used either positively or negatively to influence otherscope with grief, guilt, rage, bitterness, and bewilderment at God's "unfairness. " In his search Offers five strategies for answers to why tragedies seemingly strike those undeserving of themincreasing good emotions including praising others appropriately, giving unexpectedly, he offers comfort and reassurance to reversing the troubledGolden Rule. **2004**.\\ |
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* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.48900|DB 48900]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 5 hours, 13 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/bookdetail/srchprefix/16801BR/prefixbookmag/BR16093|BR 1680116093]] - 1 volume. |
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====Watersheds: Mastering Life's Unpredictable Crises = Marriage and Divorce ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Is There Sex After Marriage? === |
**Author:** Robert H. Lauer and Jeanette C. LauerCarol Botwin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The two social scientists interviewed more than six hundred people lack of sexual desire after marriage is one of the major problems being treated in sex clinics today according to learn how they managed what the Lauers term "watersheds": unforeseen, life-altering events and experiencesauthor. Includes a multitude After tracing the decline of examples of how sexual activity as two people successfully cope with changepass through various stages of life, Botwin searches out the issues that influence sexual desire and suggests ways of achieving happiness in an intimate relationship. **1985**.\\ |
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=== = Working SmartThe Five Love Languages: How to Accomplish More in Half the Time =Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Michael LeBouefGary Chapman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How Marriage counselor offers advice on affirming love to get more done in less time and with less hassleone's partner. Teaches how to set specific goals on a dailyChapman defines five different love languages--quality time, intermediatewords of affirmation, and lifetime basisreceiving gifts, and how to analyze and revise use acts of time accordinglyservice, and physical touch--that are based on psychological disposition. Suggests ways individuals can decipher their spouse's emotional preferences, providing examples from his own practice. **1995**.\\ |
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* [[BR 04203https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/64174|DB 64174]] - 2 volumesRead by Gary Tipton. Reading time: 5 hours, 16 minutes. |
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=== = Class: What It Is and How to Acquire It =You Can Be the Wife of a Happy Husband === |
**Author:** Mortimer LevittDarien B. Cooper\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A personal approach to the art of living well by a self-made millionaire The author shares and frequent lecturer on offers the subject of image. Levitt, a high school dropout who says he was born on the wrong side of the tracks, equates class with integrity biblical principles that she feels have completely transformed her own life and distinguishes between the appurtenances and the substance of classmarriage. He divides his practical advice into four categories: what you say, how you say it, how you look, and how you live**1974**.\\ |
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=== = The Search Love Must Be Tough: New Hope for Self-Respect =Families in Crisis === |
**Author:** Maxwell MaltzJames C. Dobson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Dr. Maltz demonstratesThe Christian psychologist offers his counsel on infidelity, step-by-stepwife abuse, alcoholism, how to stop dwelling on unhappiness and focus on achievementother causes of family breakups. His attempts He advocates an attitude of "loving toughness" that will allow one to bring commonsense to his discussions include examples for goal-building, self-understandingface any crisis with confidence and courage. He discusses how one can develop this attitude, drawing on personal accounts of individuals in crisis and seizing opportunitiesencouraging a reliance on the Bible. **1983**.\\ |
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=== = A Better Way to Live =Jennifer Fever: Older Men--Younger Women === |
**Author:** Og MandinoBarbara Gordon\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
At age thirty-five, Presents the authorwas a derelict who came very close to spending his last few dollars 's theories on a gun with which he planned to kill himself. Mandino explains what prevented his suicidethe menace of pretty, and then offers young women who are grouped here under the name "Seventeen Rules to Live ByJennifer." that he hopes will help everyone avoid living even one more day feeling failure, griefThey are the ones for whom older men leave their wives, poverty, shame, or self-pitythe "Janets." Gordon quotes people interviewed: the males who catch Jennifer fever; and the forsaken wives who are left to care for children rejected by their father. Some strong language and some descriptions of sex. **1988**.\\ |
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=== = Your Inner Child of Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Past =Loss of a Loved One === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** W. Hugh MissildineJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In laymanThe author of //Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus// offers suggestions on opening one's terms self to love after the death of a psychiatrist discusses how individuals can deal with mate or after a divorce. Describes the healing process common to both men and women. Explains the differences in the childhood experiences that affect their adult livesways males and females resolve loss. **1998**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/47134|DB 47134]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 8 hours, 57 minutes. |
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=== = How Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Be Awake Lasting Romance and Alive =Passion === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Mildred Newman & Bernard BerkowitzJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How The author of //Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus// offers suggestions to help couples communicate better in the perceptions bedroom and judgments of childhood can be harmful if they are not consciously updatedtherefore keep sex alive in a monogamous relationship. Advice is given on types He discusses what to say and do, what not to say and do, the mechanics of attitudes sex, and how to shake free rekindle passion. Some strong language and some explicit descriptions of themsex. Includes abbreviated case histories**1995**.\\ |
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* [[RC 11590https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/40459|DB 40459]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 5 hours, 11 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/10089|BR 10089]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== = How to Be Your Own Best Friend: A Conversation with Two Psychoanalysts =Crisis Time! Love, Marriage, and the Male at Mid-life === |
**Author:** Mildred Newman & Bernard Berkowitz with Jean OwenWilliam A. Nolen\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
These practicing psychoanalysts believe that everyone can help himself by learning to be aware of When Dr. Nolen turned fifty, his own accomplishmentslife started to fall apart. He learned he was suffering from male mid-life crisis syndrome. After surviving this trauma, by having compassion for himselfhe began research into the phenomenon, and proposing that male mid-life crisis is caused by praising himself for achievementdrastic alterations in brain chemistry. Aims Dr. Nolen offers advice to help the reader feel more responsible for his own fate couples survive this crisis and more capable of directing itresurrect their marriages. **1984**.\\ |
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=== = How to Sell Second Wife, Second Best? Managing Your Ideas =Marriage as a Second Wife === |
**Author:** Jesse S. NirenbergGlynnis Walker\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Instructs Popular social study on the reader in developing communication skills in business second-wife experience by a second wife herself. The author presents evidence that the second wife often suffers unnecessarily and in private lifeunfairly. Describes how to capture a listener's attentionSuch topics as alimony, how to anticipate obstacleschildren, stepchildren, incest, and how wills that may relegate a second wife to persuade otherssecond position are discussed. **1984**.\\ |
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=== = Enough Is Enough: Exploding the Myth of Having It All =Marital Separation === |
**Author:** Carol OrsbornRobert S. Weiss\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A manual that is part autobiography, part self-help guide in which Orsborn shares her own experience as Deals with coping with the end of a recovering superwoman marriage and looks at the lives transition to being single again and the effect of women todayseparation on children, relatives, and friends. Her message advocates that women who have achieved career success scale down their expectations in order to enjoy life more fullyDiscusses new strategies for starting over. **1975**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06819RC 15261]]- 2 volumes. |
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==== The Art of Learning to Love Yourself Braille ==== |
=== Mothers and Divorce: Legal, Economic, and Social Dilemmas === |
**Author:** Cecil G. OsborneTerry Arendell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
PopularHow sixty middle-psychology guide by a former clergyman offers positive procedures for creating a better self-image class divorced mothers have dealt with lawyers, judges, jobs, dating, public assistance, children, sex, and achieving a greater degree of selfex-love and selfhubbies. Provides eye-approvalopening information. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 11817BR 06773]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== = The Mind Goes ForthTalking It Over Before Marriage: The Drama of Understanding =Exercises in Premarital Communication === |
**Author:** Harry Overstreet and Bonaro OverstreetMillard J. Bienvenu\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A study of mutual understanding among human beingsDeals with the elements contributing to good communication between engaged couples, and how it can be achievedfocuses on some subjects that young people may find difficult to discuss. The authors conceive of understanding as a freedomConcrete verbal and non-making process, within the reach of everyone, which liberates individuals, groups, and nations from the hostilities and extremisms that separate man from manverbal exercises for building communication skills are also suggested. **1974**.\\ |
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=== = Divorce: The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values, Freedom a Guide to Divorcing and Spiritual Growth =Divorce Counseling === |
**Author:** M. Scott PeckEsther Oshiver Fisher\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Twenty-fifth anniversary edition A lawyer provides practical help for the various phases of divorce, including advice on how to cope with the 1978 classic psychological treatise concerning spirituality, self-actualization, maturation, and interpersonal relationshipsemotional strains. Emphasizes mental and spiritual growth, love, and self-disciplineEmphasis is on personal development. **1974**.\\ |
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* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.55631|DB 55631]] - Read by Jack Fox. Reading time: 11 hours, 28 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/14516/prefix/BR|BR 1451603020]] - 3 2 volumes. |
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=== The Divorce Handbook: Your Basic Guide to Divorce =Further Along the Road Less Traveled== |
**Author:The Unending Journey Toward Spiritual Growth** James T. Friedman\\ |
**Annotation:The Edited Lectures **\\ |
Provides information and advice, in question and answer format, on when to consider divorce, responsibilities of parties involved in divorce cases, how to choose a lawyer, child custody and support in divorce situations, financial considerations, and legal proceedings. **1982**.\\ |
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=== Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved One === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** M. Scott PeckJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Continuing with the messages put forth in //The Road Less Traveledauthor of //Men Are from Mars, Peck lectures as Women Are from Venus// offers suggestions on opening one's self to love after the death of a mate or after a divorce. Describes the healing process common to both psychiatrist men and spiritual guidewomen. He stresses striving for self-love rather than self-esteem Explains the differences in the ways males and proposes that being disillusioned and being confused are actually signs of mental healthfemales resolve loss. Some strong language**1998**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.37302detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/47134|DB 3730247134]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 8 hours, 25 57 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09391detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/11781|BR 0939111781]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== = On Lonely Street with God =Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Duane PedersonJohn Gray\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author , publisher of an underground Christian publication//Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus// offers Jesus Christ as suggestions to help couples communicate better in the solution bedroom and therefore keep sex alive in a monogamous relationship. He discusses what to personal problemssay and do, especially lonelinesswhat not to say and do, the mechanics of sex, and how to rekindle passion. He combines his own experience with articles reprinted from his newspaperSome strong language and some explicit descriptions of sex. **1995**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 09094https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/40459|DB 40459]] - Read by Erik Sandvold. Reading time: 5 hours, 11 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/10089|BR 10089]] - 2 volumes. |
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====The Laughter Prescription= FAMILIES ===== |
==== When Parents Love Too Much: The Tools of Humor and How to Use Them What Happens When Parents Won't Let Go ==== |
**Author:** Laurence J. Peter & Bill DanaLaurie Ashner and Mitch Meyerson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A "spoiled" child is one whose parents love too much. The author of authors, one a teacher and educational therapist, the bestselling //Peter Principle// teams up with humorist Bill Dana to prescribe laughter as the best medicine. Rather than other a bitter pillpsychologist specializing in dysfunctional families, they recommend humor as preventive medicine for physiological look at the dilemmas faced by adult children and psychological healthby parents caught in the "overparenting" web, and offer suggestions on ways to change those destructive patterns. **1990**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/05340/prefix/BR|BR 05340RC 32894]]- 2 volumes. |
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==== The Peter PrescriptionMaking It as a Stepparent: How to Be Creative, Confident & Competent New Roles--New Rules ==== |
**Author:** Laurence J. PeterClaire Berman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author presents 66 prescriptions for making things go right. High Advice on the list are complex problems of stepfamilies, by the "Peter Peacemakerspokeswoman for the North American Center on Adoption. Covers such angles as the role of money and possessions, " the confusion involved in merging two or taking a daily vacationmore ways of life, the alienation of children, and advice for avoiding the "Incompetence Treadmillshock of instant parenthood. **1980**."\\ |
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* [[BR 01918]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== The Theory of 21Families: Finding the Power to Succeed Crisis and Caring ==== |
**Author:** Chuck ReavesT. Berry Brazelton\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An intriguing business concept that asserts for every person who will say yes, there are twenty who will say no. For a positive response you must find Using the twentypredicaments of five real families with different situations-first person who will say yes-parent rivalry, single parenting, step-parenting, family illness, and adoption--Brazleton offers advice for families confronted with these difficult situations. **1989**.\\ |
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* [[BR 05675https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31715|DB 31715]] - 1 volumeRead by Phil Regensdorf. Reading time: 8 hours, 45 minutes. |
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==== Opening Closed Minds, and Persuading Others Straight from the Heart: How to Act Favorably Talk to Your Teenagers about Love and Sex ==== |
**Author:** William John ReillyCarol Cassell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Written by A former president of the founder American Association of Sex Educators and director mother of the National Institute six provides a sex education guide for Straight Thinkingparents of teenagers. Includes suggestions for discussing love, sex, surviving a broken heart, homosexuality, contraception, pregnancy, this book examines the problems arising from the pace and complexity sexually transmitted diseases. A list of modern lifefrequently asked questions with the author's answers is also provided. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[BR 0006107091]] - 1 volume2 volumes. |
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==== Looking Out for Number One Peace in the Family: A Workbook of Ideas and Actions ==== |
**Author:** Robert J. RingerLois Dorn with Penni Eldredge-Martin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Brash, cynical guidebook outlines startling ideas This guide for leading individuals or for family support groups stresses the importance of developing positive relationships. Offers a life filled with more pleasure down-to-earth approach to family living and tells how to find alternatives to traditional discipline and fewer complicationssolve problems in ways that meet the needs of everyone involved. **1983**.\\ |
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* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.10833|DB 10833BR 06058]] - Read by Bob Butz. Reading time: 9 hours, 57 minutes2 volumes. |
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==== RogersRaising Our Children'Rules for Businesswomens Children ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:How to Start a Career ** Deborah Doucette-Dudman and Move Up Jeffrey R. LaCure\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Handbook for grandmothers as primary caregivers of their grandchildren. The authors discuss the Ladder under-reported problem of "kinship care" as they present case histories augmented by guidelines for dealing with such issues as conflict management, drug addiction, and physical and sexual abuse. Some strong language and some descriptions of sex. **1996**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/44075|DB 44075]] - Read by Madelyn Buzzard. Reading time 10 hours, 48 minutes. |
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==== What Do You Really Want for Your Children? ==== |
**Author:** Henry CWayne W. RogersDyer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
From the choice A guide for parents on leading children to pursue a career through the major decisions that a woman will make become fulfilled, self-directed adults. Explains in the business world, Rogers offers inspirational and practical advice. He draws on his own perspective as head of a major PR firmterms how to instill self-confidence, self-reliance, creativity, and his experiences with female associates and friendscompassion. His approach focuses on achieving personal excellence and exercising sound judgment**1985**.\\ |
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==== When Am I Going to Be Happy?: How to Break the Emotional Bad Habits That Make You Miserable P.E.T. in Action ==== |
**Author:** Penelope RussianoffThomas Gordon, with Judith Gordon Sands\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide to help readers combat "emotional bad habits" such as depression, guilt, inferiority, anger, Advice and phobiasinstructive examples for handling family problems through Parent Effectiveness Training. Stating that we are conditioned into these ways of thinking by society, Russianoff says the habits can be changed by correcting the erroneous thinking that causes them in the first placeDr. Gordon uses verbatim excerpts from his case studies. **1976**.\\ |
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==== The Blessing Emotional Illness in Your Family: Helping Your Relative, Helping Yourself ==== |
**Author:** Gary Smalley & John TrentHarvey R. Greenberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Discusses the importance The author, a clinical professor of "the blessin," that ispsychiatry, has written this book to help adolescents contend with the approval received from our parentsdifficulties a relative's troubles can cause. He examines ways, and how it affects both within the way we feel about ourselves family and othersthrough professional help, of dealing with problems. Also details in religious and psychological terms how to overcome the lack Presenting a catalog of "the blessing" in our livesdisorders, he discusses each and suggests specific coping strategies. For junior and senior high readers. **1989**.\\ |
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* [[RC 27180https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/35019|DB 35019]] - Read by Maxine Wasserman. Reading time 10 hours, 30 minutes. |
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==== Sweet SuccessInstant Parent: How to Understand the Men in Your Business LifeA Guide for Step-parents, Part-time Parents, and Win with Your Own Rules Grandparents ==== |
**Author:** Kathryn B. StechertSuzy Kalter\\ |
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A guide to the pitfalls and pratfalls of caring for someone else's children. Written by a woman who was painfully innocent when she stepped into instant parenthood. Includes a calendar of thirty days' worth of things to do and places to go and a development profile for ages two to twelve. **1979**.\\ |
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==== Revolution from Within: A Book of SelfThe One-Esteem minute Scolding: The Amazingly Effective New Approach to Child Discipline ==== |
**Author:** Gloria SteinemGerald E. Nelson\\ |
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As a disciplinary technique, the scolding consists of thirty seconds or less of overt, voiced anger at a misdeed, followed by thirty seconds of equally intense affection. Nelson explains how the technique may be used to teach desirable behavior to children eighteen months to eighteen years old. **1984**.\\ |
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==== Living a Beautiful LifeThe One-Minute Scolding: Five Hundred Ways The Amazingly Effective New Approach to Add Elegance, Order, Beauty, and Joy to Every Day of Your Life Child Discipline ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Alexandra StoddardCarl E. Pickhardt\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The renowned interior designer offers her prescription for a life lived "vitally Psychologist and beautifully." Stoddard believes that "only by paying careful attention to Psychology Today blogger addresses the simple details of daily tasks common developmental changes in children before and to our immediate surroundings" can we achieve joy during the teen years. Offers suggestions for dealing with conflicts and serenity in day-to-day existenceprotecting kids from danger. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[RC 25856https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/20140|BR 20140]] - 4 volumes. |
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==== SolitudeSaturday Parent: A Return to the Self Book for Separated Families ==== |
**Author:** Anthony StorrPeter Rowlands\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychotherapist Storr takes issue with A book for and about the idea that intimate relationships are other parent--the exclusive source of mental one who lives apart from the children and personal satisfactionsees them only occasionally. He reasons that many creative people work alone The author, a psychologist by training and that voluntary Saturday parent himself, gives specific tips on planning long and enforced solitude may have a restorative value through which individuals may achieve happiness even when their interpersonal relationships are inferiorshort visits, introducing newcomers in the noncustodial parent's life, and handling guilt and confusion. **1980**.\\ |
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==== Positive Illusions: Creative Self-Deception and the Healthy Mind When Your Child Is Afraid ==== |
**Author:** Shelley E. TaylorRobert Schachter and Carole Spearin McCauley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
"The human mind distorts incoming information in a positive direction." This is authors present an extensive discussion of the conclusion reached by a psychology professor from her study normal fears of people recovering childhood from tragic situationsinfancy through age sixteen. She discusses how this tendency toward positive bias helps maintain mental and physical healthParents are advised on identifying fears, promotes creativityhelping their children deal with them, and increases the likelihood recognizing serious fears that may require professional help. The final section of success in the workplacebook discusses phobias, their symptoms, causes, and treatments. **1988**.\\ |
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==== AlphagenicsSaying No Is Not Enough: How to Use Your Brain Waves to Improve Your Life Raising Children Who Make Wise Decisions about Drugs and Alcohol ==== |
**Author:** Anthony A. Zaffuto & Mary Q. ZaffutoRobert Schwebel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A doclinical psychologist gives practical advice on how to empower children to make wise decisions about drugs and alcohol. He enumerates ways to raise competent children with well-itdeveloped life- yourself book for the layman on selfand problem-regulation of mind solving skills. He discusses how important it is to communicate and body through the inducement of the alpha state, those waves emitted by the brain during the state of deep relaxation prior suggests ways to sleepbegin a dialog. Information on intervention for the child who is already on drugs is included. **1989**.\\ |
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==== = Relationships ===== |
==== Beyond CodependencyWhen You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: And Getting Better All Resolving the Time Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Melody BeattieVictoria Secunda\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
As a follow-up Written for daughters whose childhood relationships with their mothers continue to //Codependent No More// in which Beattie discussed stopping the pain of codependency haunt their adulthood and gaining control of oneaffect their relationships with friends, lovers, husbands, and children. Secunda's life, she now addresses the topic of self care--what goal is to do when the pain has stopped. Using case histories, she discusses topics such as recovery help daughters break their dependency on their mothers and relapse, breaking free, dealing with shame, overcoming fatal attractions, gain a healthy perspective on their mothers and dealing with the fear of commitmentthemselves. **1990**.\\ |
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* [[RC 31290https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/32117|DB 32117]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 15 hours, 15 minutes. |
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==== Codependent No MoreThe Whole-Brain Child: How 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Melody BeattieDaniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Codependents--those who spend too much time Neuropsychiatrist Siegel and energy worrying about chemically dependent people--are, according to the author, sometimes sicker than the people addicted to drugs and alcoholpsychotherapist Bryson provide insight into child brain development. They become hostile, controlling, and manipulative as they try discuss ways to protect themselves, foster children's emotional intelligence and yet they don't seem offer tools to realize that they too have implement a problemholistic approach to modifying behavior. The book attempts to help codependents stop the pain and gain control of their livesCommercial audiobook. **2011**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB28220/bookmag/74711|DB 74711]] - **IN PROCESS**Read by Tina Payne Bryson. Reading time 6 hours, 17 minutes. |
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==== The New CodependencyBrainstorm: Help The Power and Guidance for Today's Generation Purpose of the Teenage Brain ==== |
***ADDED 20132014***\\ |
**Author:** Melody BeattieDaniel J. Siegel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A followNeuropsychiatrist Siegel, author of //The Whole-up to the classic Brain Child// Codependent No More([[https://explains that codependency is a pattern of behavior rather than an illnessnlsbard.Using examples loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74711|DB 74711]]), uses scientific research into the field of interpersonal neurobiology and anecdotes from her patients and his own lifefamily to explain teenage behavior. Discusses the purpose of the adolescent mind, the timing of puberty, Beattie discusses analyzing one's actions and offers enabling techniques ways to set boundaries and take better care of oneselfhelp families thrive. Bestseller. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.68362detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78189|DB 6836278189]] - Read by Kerry DukinJeremy Gage. Reading time : 10 9 hours, 6 47 minutes. |
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==== Being a ManYes, I Can Say No: The Paradox of Masculinity A Parent's Guide to Assertiveness Training for Children ==== |
**Author:** Donald HManuel J. BellSmith\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Looks at the changes in the lives Through adult-child dialog about a range of men brought about by the sexual revolution situations, such as experimentation with sex and drugs, the feminist movementauthor elicits responses that can help a young person withstand negative peer pressure. Based on the authorSmith's own experiences and on interviews with middleprogram reportedly has fostered positive self-class menimages in children by providing coping techniques. Some descriptions of sex. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 19727BR 06877]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Intimate Secrets: Which to Keep and Which How to Tell Talk with Your Child about Sexuality (Planned Parenthood) ==== |
**Author:** Karen BlakerFaye Wattleton and Elisabeth Keiffer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How we communicate our secrets--Sensitive, sensible guide for parents that emphasizes the unknown facts about ourselves, our feelings, needs, dreams, importance of creating and desires--is maintaining avenues of communication with a key to surmising the level of our mental maturitychild from preschool years through adulthood. So says psychologist Blaker, who maintains Presents typical questions that most people communicate too little or too much. Her aim each age group is likely to show how to reach the middle ground of mental health that lies between these two extremesask about sex and supplies direct, helpful responses. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 25330BR 06792]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== When Your Adult Child Breaks Your Heart: Coping with Difficult People Mental Illness, Substance Abuse, and the Problems That Tear Families Apart ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Robert MJoel L. Young and Christine A. BramsonAdamec\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practicing psychologist offers field-tested techniques for identifying, understanding, Psychiatrist and medical writer offer practical advice and coping strategies for parents dealing with seven problematic personality types in the workaday world. The categories include hostile-aggressivesadult children who are mentally ill, complainersdrug addicted, super-agreeables, negativists, indecisives, know-it-allsabusive, or incarcerated. Focuses on identifying and treating underlying conditions of mental illness and substance abuse as the silent typemost efficient way to assist your troubled child. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[BR 04919https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78064|DB 78064]] - 2 volumesRead by Gary Tipton. Reading time 10 hours, 21 minutes. |
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====Smart Women, Foolish Choices= CHILD ABUSE ===== |
==== The Courage to Heal: Finding the Right Men and Avoiding the Wrong Ones A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse ==== |
**Author:** Connell Cowan & Melvyn KinderEllen Bass and Laura Davis\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Two Beverly Hills psychologists analyze The authors, one a counselor and one a survivor of child abuse, describe the successes healing process and failures the importance of women looking for acceptable menrecalling painful incidents clearly and recognizing the emotional damage the abuse caused. They suggest discuss ways to help victims understand that today's accomplished, discriminating women should 'become more realistic in their expectations if they want were not at fault, and ways to form close longdevelop self-term relationships with menesteem. Some descriptions of sex. **1988**.\\ |
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* [[https://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.21543detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07673|DB 21543BR 07673]] - Read by Bob Butz. Reading time: 5 hours, 48 minutes6 volumes. |
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==== Women Men Love/Women Men LeaveOutgrowing the Pain: Why Men Are Drawn to Women; What Makes Them Want to Stay A Book for and about Adults Abused as Children ==== |
**Author:** Connell Cowan & Melvyn KinderElaina M. Gil\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors believe that men and women view love differently and that if women understand A therapist helps victims admit the differencefull effect of abuse in their lives, they can secure shows the kind aftereffects of lasting relationships they want. In particularchild abuse, the authors examine those attitudes and behaviors of women that destroy intimacy with men and those that foster itoffers suggestions for healing. **1983**.\\ |
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==== Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know Children at Risk, My Fight Against Child Abuse: A Personal Story and a Public Plea ==== |
**Author:** Barbara De AngelisPaula Hawkins\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author believes that a woman has three choices in dealing with men: get angry Combination personal saga and complain, give them up, or learn everything there is to know about them so you can have a wonderful relationshippolitical-action tract on the problem of child abuse by the Florida senator. Her secrets include Hawkins recounts the six biggest mistakes women make with men, personal agonizing that led her to publicly announce that she herself had been abused at the three biggest mysteries about menage of five. She discusses case histories, the top twenty sexual turn-offs for menoutlines preventive steps, recommends resources, and ways provides a checklist to communicate with menhelp individuals protect their children. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.31291|DB 31291RC 25119]]- Read by Madelyn Buzzard. Reading time: 7 hours, 47 minutes. |
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==== Looking for Love in All the Wrong PlacesReclaiming Our Lives: Overcoming Romantic and Sexual Addictions Hope for Adult Survivors of Incest ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Jed DiamondCarol H. Poston and Karen Lison \\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Guide to understanding and overcoming destructive romantic attachmentsHelp for women who have been victims of incest--whether one incident, or many. DiamondEach chapter begins with a narrative by Poston, a psychotherapist specializing in addictionvictim, explains the characteristics of love addictionregarding her abused childhood, illustrates the phenomenon through real-life examplesthen Lison, and includes a candid description psychotherapist, presents case studies in which she analyzes victims' experiences. Contains a fourteen-step guide for recovery. Some strong language and descriptions of his own former addictive behaviorsex. **1989**.\\ |
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* [[RC 28538https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30420|DB 30420]] - Read by Mitzi Friedlander. Reading time 10 hours, 6 minutes. |
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==== Sexual ChemistrySecret Scars: What It Is, How to Use It A Guide for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse ==== |
**Author:** Julius Fast and Meredith BernsteinCynthia Crosson Tower\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors believe that sexual chemistry is not an intangible factor, but Written by a process that anyone may learn to develop therapist and use. They also assert that it is the sum of tensions educator, this book defines sexual abuse and vibrations that communicates attraction between peoplequotes case histories to describe its impact. Includes interviews with men The author examines therapy, self-help groups, and women independent survivor goals and what attracts themoffers advice to survivors on raising their own children. Includes a listing of support organizations. Some descriptions of sex. **1988**.\\ |
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====Men Are Just Desserts = Health and Healing ===== |
==== Stress / Anxiety & Fears (ADDED 2014) ==== |
=== The Mayo Clinic Guide to Stress-Free Living === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Sonya FriedmanAmit Sood (Mayo Clinic)\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Advice for liberated women from a clinical psychologist known for her radio and TV shows. Dr. Friedman holds that men are Sood, the delicious final course in chair of the feast of life Mind Body Medicine Initiative at the Mayo Clinic, draws on brain research to develop techniques for reducing stress. Discusses practical tips for starting a woman who knows personal mind-body practice that she herself is the main course. She also tells how to make your husband a true partnerwill promote present-moment awareness, how to achieve real intimacygratitude, compassion, meaning, and how to pull yourself out of the dependency trapforgiveness. **2013**.\\ |
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=== = Smart Cookies Don't CrumbleMy Age of Anxiety: A Modern Woman's Guide to Living Fear, Hope, Dread, and Loving Her Own Life =the Search for Peace of Mind === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Sonya FriedmanScott Stossel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practicing psychologist examines Editor of //The Atlantic// chronicles anxiety disorder through history, philosophy, religion, culture, and science, while relating his lifelong struggle with the excuses condition. Discusses medications, therapies, and myths she believes women often use to avoid taking charge of their own livestreatment theories, including nature versus nurture. She offers woman of all ages Describes his own personal redemption and backgrounds advice on mining their individual strengths to shape more promising futuresresilience. Some strong language. Bestseller. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.22965detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78163|DB 2296578163]] - Read by Madelyn BuzzardBill Burton. Reading time : 6 17 hours, 58 54 minutes. |
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==== Men Are From MarsCancer (ADDED 2014) ==== |
=== The Priority List: A Teacher's Final Quest to Discover Life's Greatest Lessons === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** David Menasche\\ |
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High school English teacher Menasche relates his battle with brain cancer that began at age thirty-four with a prognosis of death within a few months. Explains his decision years later--despite vision and mobility loss--to travel alone throughout the country to visit hundreds of his former students. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78769|DB 78769]] - Read by Bob Moore. Reading time 4 hours, Women Are 47 minutes. |
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==== Diabetes (ADDED 2014) ==== |
=== The Blood Sugar Solution: The Ultrahealthy Program for Losing Weight, Preventing Disease, and Feeling Great Now! === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Mark Hyman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Medical director of the UltraWellness Center explains the causes of obesity and type 2 diabetes. Discusses adopting an organic diet, exercise plan, and stress-relief methods to prevent chronic illness. Includes recipes. Bestseller. **2012**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74530|DB 74530]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 15 hours, 29 minutes. |
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=== The Blood Sugar Solution 10-Day Detox Diet: Activate Your Body's Natural Ability to Burn Fat and Lose Weight Fast === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Mark Hyman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Author of //The Blood Sugar Solution// ([[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74530|DB 74530]]) offers specific nutritional strategies to reduce insulin levels. Includes detailed explanations for food choices and recipes. Suggests ways to prepare both your kitchen and your mind for the recommended plan. Unrated. Commercial audiobook. **2014**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78677|DB 78677]] - Read by Mark Hyman. Reading time 7 hours, 35 minutes. |
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=== Diabetic Retinopathy: From VenusDiagnosis to Treatment === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Homayoun Tabandeh and David S. Boyer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Retina specialists and authors of //Macular Degeneration// ([[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74495|DB 74495]]) describe diabetic retinopathy, a potential problem for people with diabetes. Discuss its development, treatment options and ways to slow its progress, and lifestyle changes that lead to better glucose control. Offer advice on coping with visual impairment. **2014**.\\ |
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==== Healthy Living / Diet and Exercise (ADDED 2014) ==== |
=== The End of Illness === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** David Agus and Kristin Loberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Cancer researcher Agus advocates a systemic view of health and recommends knowing about your own physiology and genetics to personalize your health care. Discusses the holistic value of nutrition, sleep, movement, and keeping a regular schedule. Highlights developing medical technologies like proteomic analysis, the analysis of human proteins. Bestseller. **2011**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74306|DB 74306]] - Read by Gary Tipton. Reading time 11 hours, 33 minutes. |
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=== A Practical Short Guide to a Long Life === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** David Agus and Kristin Loberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Cancer researcher distills his book //The End of Illness// ([[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74306|DB 74306]]) into a concise collection of tips for Improving Communication healthy living. Recommends a diet of non-processed seasonal foods and Getting What You Want in a daily fitness routine to maintain weight and manage stress. Bestseller. **2014**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78295|DB 78295]] - Read by Guy Williams. Reading time 3 hours, 18 minutes. |
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==== Multiple Sclerosis (ADDED 2014) ==== |
=== Lean On Me: Ten Powerful Steps to Moving Beyond Your Relationships Diagnosis and Taking Back Your Life === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Nancy Davis (Nancy Sue)\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author describes a doctor telling her at age thirty-three that she had multiple sclerosis and there was nothing she could do. To provide others with tools for dealing with their own chronic illness, she details the steps she used to take charge of her health. **2006**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78345|DB 78345]] - Read by Mare Trevathan. Reading time 7 hours, 21 minutes. |
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=== Waist-High in The World: A Life Among the Nondisabled === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Nancy Mairs\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A Tucson writer describes her experiences with multiple sclerosis. Having lived as both nondisabled and disabled, Mairs hopes her observations and responses will "make the terrain seem less alien, less perilous, and far more amusing than the myths and legends about it would suggest." **1996**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/44084|DB 44084]] - Read by Sharon Murray. Reading time 6 hours, 18 minutes. |
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==== Talking Books ==== |
=== The Relaxation Response === |
**Author:** Herbert Benson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A hypertension specialist defines the risk of stress and explains how tensions can lead to strokes, heart failure, and high blood pressure. Dr. Benson offers simplified instructions in the use of Transcendental Meditation, Yoga, and traditional prayers of the Eastern and Western religions to cope with anxieties. **1975**.\\ |
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=== Beyond the Relaxation Response: How to Harness the Healing Power of Your Personal Beliefs === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** John GrayHerbert Benson, with William Proctor\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Therapist Gray describes what he perceives to be fundamental differences in how men The author contends that a positive mental attitude, attained through his "relaxation response" for dealing with stress, can also help people increase their control over health and women communicatehappiness. Provided are instructions on translating what the other sex is saying and responding in an appropriate manner to improve relationships**1984**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.35918detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/22254|DB 3591822254]] - Read by Erik SandvoldFred Major. Reading time : 9 5 hours, 19 3 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09230/prefix/BR|BR 09230]] - 3 volumes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/17778/prefix/BR|BR 17778]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== = Creative IntimacyTimeless Healing: How to Break the Patterns That Poison Your Relationships =The Power and Biology of Belief === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Jerry A. GreenwaldHerbert Benson, with Marg Stark\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Outlines clearThe author of //Beyond the Relaxation Response// ([[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/22254|DB 22254]]) describes how self-care can be combined with pharmaceuticals, positive steps for discovering intimacy as surgery, and other procedures to help the healing process. Self-care methods include a prime source of stabilitybelief in "something good,security" the placebo effect of "remembered wellness," and emotional nourishmentreligious convictions that enhance the relaxation response. **1996**.\\ |
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* [[BR 03399https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/50143|DB 50143]] - Read by Gary Tipton. Reading time 11 hours, 18 minutes. |
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=== = How The Holistic Way to Break Your Addiction Health & Happiness: A New Approach to a Person =Complete Lifetime Wellness === |
**Author:** Howard MHarold H. HalpernBloomfield, Robert Kory\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychotherapist Halpern finds that For what the three major factors which cause people to remain in unrewarding authors prescribe as "lovelifetime wellness," relationships are practicalitythis work offers practical, beliefuncomplicated suggestions on how to improve your physical, emotional, and --most importantly--infant-based "attachment hungersmental health. " Halpern suggests that those who are considering "withdrawing" from a relationship keep a detailed diary Covers exercise, weight control, and develop a network of friends for supportovercoming bad habits. **1978**.\\ |
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* [[RC 14310]] |
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=== = Living Together, Getting Up When You're Feeling AloneDown: Healing Your Hidden Loneliness =A Woman's Guide to Overcoming and Preventing Depression === |
**Author:** Dan KileyHarriet B. Braiker\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Admitting that he is more successful treating women than menThe author, Kiley offers several options for the "Living Together Loneliness" syndrome that many a clinical psychologist, has developed a program to help women experiencecombat everyday depression. He identifies the guilt-provoking feelings so many women have The regimen involves procedures designed to manage negative emotions and then guides readers through a fiveraise self-step program of surrenderesteem. Overcoming depression, withdrawal, reevaluation, reemergencesays Braiker, means learning to identify low moods and discovery, based on the principles accepting them as a part of truth, hope, and lovelife. **1988**.\\ |
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=== = Feeling Good: The Wendy Dilemma: When Women Stop Mothering Their Men =New Mood Therapy === |
**Author:** Dan KileyDavid D. Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author reports on results of //The Peter Pan Syndrome// tells how treating depression, from mild blues to break serious cases, with "cognitive thinking," a program pioneered by colleagues at the habit University of mothering the men in your life without being rejectedPennsylvania. Kiley sees mothering wives as those who adopt attitudes and behaviors The therapy involves fighting automatic responses to disappointments by intelligent thinking that make them feel in control of the lives of men, because they lack a sense of mastery over their own livescan put one's shortcomings into perspective. He offers practical, commonsense advice on caring for a man without falling into the trap of taking over as his mother**1980**.\\ |
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* [[RC 21201https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/17777|DB 17777]] - Read by Pat Hurley. Reading time: 14 hours, 58 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09097|BR 09097]] - 4 volumes. |
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=== = What Stress Management: A Comprehensive Guide to Do When He Won't Change: Getting What You Need from the Man You Love =Wellness === |
**Author:** Dan KileyEdward A. Charlesworth and Ronald G. Nathan\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Bestselling author Two clinical experts identify symptoms and psychotherapist Dan Kiley provides advice causes of stress and guidelines for women who want to change their men offer step-by-step physical and make them more sensitive psychological relaxation techniques. They include chapters on assertiveness, time-management, nutrition, and responsiveexercise. A comprehensive manual. **1984**.\\ |
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=== = Light His FireAnatomy of an Illness as Perceived by the Patient: How to Keep Your Man Passionately Reflections on Healing and Hopelessly in Love with You =Regeneration === |
**Author:** Ellen KreidmanNorman Cousins\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
KreidmanThe author's theory is that reflections generated by his triumph over a man falls in love with a woman because crippling disease. Cousins investigates the chemistry of the way he feels when he is with her. She offers suggestions on how will to communicate with your man live and make him a sex object, how to express feelings factors influencing the capacity for self-healing. He also believes that humor and create moodslaughter, and how to keep his fire lit foreveralong with a strong doctor/patient relationship, aid the body's natural healing powers. **1979**.\\ |
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* [[RC 30551https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/55117|DB 55117]] - Read by Bob Moore. Reading time: 5 hours, 2 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR08108/bookmag/14347|BR 14347]] - 2 volumes1 volume. |
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=== = Head First: The Technique Biology of Handling People: Eleven Helps for Your Human Relations =Hope === |
**Author:** Donald A. Laird and Eleanor C. LairdNorman Cousins\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Eleven steps are listed to aid in achieving success The author, a professor at UCLA's School of Medicine, contends that positive attitudes can play important roles in human relationshipsthe healing process. The authors discuss self-confidenceDrawing upon his personal experiences as well as those of doctors, friendlinessresearchers, directnessand patients, Cousins argues that faith, love, determination and other concepts needed to overcome hostility and win cooperation in dealing with peoplehumor, promote healing within the body. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 01462https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31001|DB 31001]] - Read by Bob Butz. Reading time: 12 hours, 18 minutes. |
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==== The Dance Secret Strength of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships =Depression === |
**Author:** Harriet Goldhor LernerFrederic F. Flach\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A staff psychologist at the Menninger Foundation emphasizes psychiatrist asserts that women have more trouble dealing with anger than men do. Because culture has taught women depression, which is a common response to be mediators in relationshipsstress, she argues, they often fail to express their anger for fear offers the hidden opportunities of rocking the boatpersonal insight and growth. Lerner shows readers ways to deal more effectually with anger**1974**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.27934|DB 27934RC 08599]]- Read by Patricia McDermott. Reading time: 6 hours, 59 minutes. |
* [[BR 06419]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== The Dance of IntimacyHospital Patient: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships =for Family and Friends === |
**Author:** Harriet Goldhor LernerKenneth France\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Although directed toward a female audience, this self-help guide Focuses on how the hospital visitor can be useful relate to males a patient, as well . Picking up where //Dance of Anger// left off, the author details as how difficult change a patient can becope with and profit by the good intentions of others. By using case historiesThe practical matters discussed include the kinds of gifts to bring, Lerner shows how to make positive moves within day-to-day relationships with spouseslong a visitor should stay, parents, siblingsinteraction with medical personnel, and lovershow the visitor can pose questions regarding such sensitive areas as a patient's prognosis. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.29052|DB 29052RC 26822]]- Read by Patricia McDermott. Reading time: 7 hours, 20 minutes. |
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=== = The Friendship FactorOvercoming Agoraphobia: How to Get Closer to Conquering Fear of the People You Care For =Outside World === |
**Author:** Alan Loy McGinnisGoldstein and Berry Stainback\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author presents ways in which people can get close A professor of psychiatry discusses the causes of the phobia and stay close to people they likethe treatment methods he has devised. Included is information He also outlines a self-help program based on ways to deepen your relationships, guidelines for cultivating intimacy, ways to handle negative emotions, such techniques as diaphragmatic breathing and what positive thinking to do when a relationship goes badrid oneself of "catastrophic thoughts." **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28873https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27951|DB 27951]] - Read by Lou Harpenau. Reading time: 8 hours, 50 minutes. |
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=== = Why Can't Men Open Up? Overcoming Men's Fear Invisible Scars: A Guide to Coping with the Emotional Impact of Intimacy =Breast Cancer === |
**Author:** Steven Naifeh and Gregory White SmithMimi Greenberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
While giving women suggestions on how to lead men to intimacyDiscusses the options, medical procedures, outcomes, and emotional problems that accompany the authors bring out the complicity treatment ofmany women in fostering the closed male, and recovery from, breast cancer. Drawing upon psychological studiesGreenberg, case historiesherself a recovered cancer patient, their own experiencestells how to choose a compatible physician, and extensive interviewsfind a personal support system, make treatment decisions, they avoid simplistic explanations and assert that there no easy solutionsget back to a normal life-style. "One must be independent and giving**1988**."\\ |
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* [[BR 05836RC 29364]]- 2 volumes. |
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=== = Letters from Women Who Love Too MuchSomatics: A Closer Look at Relationship Addiction Reawakening the Mind's Control of Movement, Flexibility, and Recovery =Health === |
**Author:** Robin NorwoodThomas Hanna\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Collection of letters-to-the-The author inspired by explains the bestselling //Women Who Love Too Much//. The author amplifies her basic theory, that some women become "addictedsomatic" viewpoint that everything in our lives is a bodily experience. He recommends specific exercises to either longrelieve "sensory-term or serial relationships that are destructive to their mental motor amnesia" and physical well-beingslow the aging process. He illustrates his thesis with five case studies and describes exercises in detail. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 2760331741]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07811|BR 07811]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== = Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change =Can Heal Your Life === |
**Author:** Robin NorwoodLouise L. Hay\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authorbelieves that this work will help anyone who loves too much, though she a metaphysical counselor, asserts that it is written for women because loving too much is primarily a female phenomenon"if we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.Its purpose is " This handbook tells how to help women recognize destructive patterns of relating eliminate the blocks to men, understand their origins, good health and gain the tools for changing their livesa happy life by regaining one's self-esteem and confidence. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.22991detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/26986|DB 2299126986]] - Read by Madelyn BuzzardPam Ward. Reading time: 9 6 hours, 58 6 minutes. |
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=== = If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single? Ten Strategies That Will Change Your Love Life Forever =The Right to Feel Bad: Coming to Terms with Normal Depression === |
**Author:** Susan PageLesley Hazleton\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A romantic selfpracticing psychologist and journalist defines depression in imaginative, non-help book medical terms. Hazleton focuses on "normal" as opposed to chronic depression, arguing that is upbeat, practical, and winning. The author is a feminist former director this form of women's programs at the University of California at Berkeley and condition should be viewed "not as a leader of singles workshopsproblem but as a process." **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/07460/prefix/BR|BR 07460RC 21392]]- 3 volumes. |
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=== = Who Gets Sick: How to Make Love to Each Other =Beliefs, Moods, and Thoughts Affect Your Health === |
**Author:** Alexandra PenneyBlair Justice\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Suggests ways that both sexes Offers recent research on how the body can better understand heal itself. Some of the other emotionally beliefs cited indicate that a positive and physically. Gives detailed information on establishing and maintaining intimacyoutgoing disposition, keeping romance alivefaith in oneself, talking about desires and feelingsan ability to cope with adversity, and overcoming fears about performance, a sense of control produce reactions in the brain that cause the body image, and other common barriers to intimacyheal. Some explicit descriptions of sex**1988**.\\ |
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* [[RC 2059929092]] |
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==== How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life to Win Over Depression ==== |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Tom Rath and Donald O. CliftonTim LaHaye\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Grandson-grandfather coauthors present A pastoral counselor offers a life guide based on positive psychology and the simple metaphor of a bucket and a dipper, which can be used either positively or negatively therapeutic formula to influence others. Offers five strategies for increasing good emotions including praising others appropriatelycombat depression, giving unexpectedly, and reversing the Golden Ruleleading mental illness in the United States. Dr. LaHaye believes that acceptance of Jesus Christ will insure emotional stability. 2004**1974**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/16093/prefix/BR|BR 16093RC 09749]]- 1 volume. |
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=== == Marriage and Divorce ===== |
==== Mothers and DivorceBeyond Rage: Legal, Economic, and Social Dilemmas =The Emotional Impact of Chronic Physical Illness === |
**Author:** Terry ArendellJoAnn LeMaistre\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How sixty middle-class divorced mothers have dealt with lawyersThe author, judgesa clinical psychologist who counsels chronically ill people and has multiple sclerosis herself, jobspresents a collection of vignettes drawn from actual cases, dating, public assistance, children, sex, and ex-hubbiesalong with her own commentaries. Provides eye-opening information**1985**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06773https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31753|DB 31753]] -3 volumesRead by Dee Weber. Reading time: 5 hours, 48 minutes. |
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=== = Talking It Over Before MarriagePhobia Free: Exercises in Premarital Communication =A Medical Breakthrough Linking 90% of All Phobias and Panic Attacks to a Hidden Physical Problem === |
**Author:** Millard JHarold N. BienvenuLevinson with Steven Carter\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Deals with Rejecting the elements contributing to good communication between engaged couplestraditional view that phobias are a mental disorder, and focuses on some subjects the author suggests that young people may find difficult most phobias have a physiological basis, having to discussdo with inner ear problems that can be treated simply and safely. Dr. Concrete verbal Levinson offers case histories and nonself-verbal exercises for building communication skills are also suggesteddiagnostic tests and advocates a holistic approach to treatment. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 02814RC 25252]]- 1 volume. |
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=== = Is There Sex After Marriage? =Stress Passages: Surviving Life's Transitions Gracefully === |
**Author:** Carol BotwinL. John Mason\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The lack of sexual desire after marriage is one of Divided into chapters on the major problems being treated in sex clinics today according to the author. After tracing the decline of sexual activity as two people pass through various stress causing stages of life; pregnancy, Botwin searches out the issues that influence sexual desire parenting, childhood, adolescence, adulthood and suggests ways of achieving happiness work, midlife transition, aging, and death. This book presents techniques and exercises that are designed to help people relax in an intimate relationshiporder to more effectively handle these stages and stresses. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 22844https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/28955|DB 28955]] - Read by Mary Pederson. Reading time: 9 hours, 44 minutes. |
* [[BR 07755]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== = The Five Love Languages: How Johns Hopkins Patients' Guide to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate =Brain Cancer === |
***ADDED 20132014***\\ |
**Author:** Gary ChapmanDeanna Glass Macenka & Alessandro Olivi\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Marriage counselor offers advice on affirming love Medical professionals offer guide to one's partnerhelp patients make informed decisions about brain cancer treatment. Chapman defines five different love languages--quality timeThey discuss therapy options and their side effects, words of affirmationincluding surgery, receiving giftsradiotherapy, acts of servicechemotherapy, and physical touchcombined modality protocols. Provides information on the disease in older adults and an index of resources. **2011**.\\ |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/73936|DB 73936]] - Read by Jill Ferris. Reading time: 5 hours, 31 minutes. |
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=== Superimmunity: Master Your Emotions & Improve Your Health === |
**Author:** Paul Pearsall\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explores the field of psychoneuroimmunology, which emphasizes the relationship between state of mind and health. The author theorizes that are based on psychological dispositionpeople run in hot and cold cycles; the former leads to heart disease, the latter to cancer. Suggests ways individuals can decipher their spouse's emotional preferencesQuizzes are provided for determining how one is "running,providing examples from his own practice" as are helpful hints for cooling off or warming up. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.nls/db.64174|DB 64174RC 29380]]- Read by Gary Tipton. Reading time: 5 hours, 16 minutes. |
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=== Living with Chronic Illness: Days of Patience and Passion === |
**Author:** Cheri Register\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, who is herself chronically ill, draws on her experiences and those of others who suffer from a wide range of chronic conditions to paint a vivid and thorough picture of their daily lives. She also discusses the reactions of healthy people to the chronically ill, and offers advice on providing support and assistance. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[RC 27433]] |
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=== = You Can Be the Wife of a Happy Husband =Stress without Distress === |
**Author:** Darien B. CooperHans Selye\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author shares A researcher who holds doctorates in medicine, science, and offers the biblical principles that she feels have completely transformed her own philosophy tells how to achieve a rewarding life style in harmony with the laws of nature by using stress as a positive force for personal achievement and marriagehappiness. **1974**.\\ |
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* [[RC 1537708659]] |
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=== = Love Must Be Tough: New Hope for Families Johns Hopkins Medicine Patients' Guide to Cancer in Crisis =Older Adults === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** James CGary R. Shapiro & Ilene S. DobsonBrowner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The Christian psychologist offers his counsel on infidelityOncologists explain cancer treatment in older adults. They discuss the biology of aging, wife abusetherapy options and their potential side effects, alcoholismpalliative care, rehabilitation, and other causes of family breakupsnutrition. He advocates an attitude of "loving toughness" that will allow one to face any crisis with confidence and courage. He discusses how one can develop this attitude, drawing on personal accounts of individuals in crisis and encouraging a reliance on the Bible**2012**.\\ |
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* [[RC 23556https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/77887|DB 77887]] - Read by Michael Scherer. Reading time 5 hours, 8 minutes. |
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=== = DivorceLove, Medicine, & Miracles: The New Freedom Lessons Learned about Self-Healing from a Guide to Divorcing and Divorce Counseling =Surgeon's Experience with Exceptional Patients === |
**Author:** Esther Oshiver FisherBernie S. Siegel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A lawyer provides practical help for surgeon and professor at Yale Medical School, the various phases of divorceauthor became interested in cancer victims who had regained their health, including advice although diagnosed as incurable. He founded ECaP (Exceptional Cancer Patients), which inspired creative programs based on how to cope with the emotional strains. Emphasis belief that miracles occur when the mind is focused on personal developmenthealing. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/26318|DB 26318]] - Read by Jim Bond. Reading time: 9 hours, 22 minutes. |
* [[BR 0302006561]] - 2 3 volumes. |
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=== = The Divorce HandbookPeace, Love & Healing: Your Basic Guide Bodymind Communication and the Path to Divorce =Self-healing: An Exploration === |
**Author:** James TBernie S. FriedmanSiegel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Provides information After examining the causes for diseases and advicethe ways people activate illnesses, in question and answer format, on when Siegel discusses how to consider divorceuse self-healing. He does, responsibilities of parties involved in divorce caseshowever, how to choose a lawyercaution people that they should not rely on self-healing alone, child custody and support but use it in divorce situations, financial considerations, and legal proceedingsconjunction with treatment by medical professionals. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30953|DB 30953]] - Read by Jim Bond. Reading time: 10 hours, 40 minutes. |
* [[BR 0520107837]] - 2 3 volumes. |
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=== = Jennifer FeverMy Parent Has Cancer and It Really Sucks: Older MenReal-Life Advice from Real-Younger Women =Life Teens === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Barbara GordonMaya Silver and Marc Silver\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Presents the authorTeens' guide to coping with a parent's theories cancer diagnosis. Provides information on the menace of prettydisease and offers advice on communicating with family and friends, young women who are grouped here under the name "Jennifer." They are the ones for whom older men leave their wivesdealing with stress, the "Janetsand seeking support. " Gordon quotes people interviewed: the males who catch Jennifer fever; Includes accounts from peers and the forsaken wives who are left to care for children rejected by their fatherresources. Some strong language For junior and some descriptions of sexsenior high and older readers. **2013**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28115https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76350|DB 76350]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 8 hours, 44 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/19907|BR 19907]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== The Work/Stress Connection: How to Cope with Job Burnout =Mars == |
**Author:** Robert L. Veninga and Venus Starting OverJames P. Spradley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explores the effect of unrelieved work-related stress on performance, health, and personal life through a series of interviews with a wide variety of men and women. The authors offer two kinds of positive strategies to combat burnout: personal ones involving health, life style, and attitudes; and organizational strategies which may result in a detached view of the job. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 18778]] |
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=== The Female Stress Syndrome: How to Recognize and Live with It === |
**Author:** Georgia Witkin-Lanoil\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A Practical Guide clinical psychologist zeroes in on the female mind and body, describing special stresses unique to women. Covers working, marriage, living alone, motherhood, hidden stresses, and being female after forty. Offers insight and self-help exercises, relaxation techniques, and other methods for Finding managing female stress syndrome. **1984**.\\ |
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* [[RC 21796]] |
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=== The Male Stress Syndrome: How to Recognize and Live with It === |
**Author:** Georgia Witkin-Lanoil\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A clinical psychologist offers timely advice to men on the causes of and cures for stress. The author contends that although men and women share many stresses, such as stress from job and family, each sex is likely to experience these situations differently. Includes profiles for self-evaluation. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 25829]] |
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==== Braille ==== |
=== The Holistic Way to Health & Happiness: A New Approach to Complete Lifetime Wellness === |
**Author:** Harold H. Bloomfield, Robert Kory\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
For what the authors prescribe as "lifetime wellness," this work offers practical, uncomplicated suggestions on how to improve your physical, emotional, and mental health. Covers exercise, weight control, and overcoming bad habits. **1978**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 14310]] |
* [[BR 04196]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy === |
**Author:** David D. Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author reports on results of treating depression, from mild blues to serious cases, with "cognitive thinking," a program pioneered by colleagues at the University of Pennsylvania. The therapy involves fighting automatic responses to disappointments by intelligent thinking that can put one's shortcomings into perspective. **1980**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/17777|DB 17777]] - Read by Pat Hurley. Reading time: 14 hours, 58 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09097|BR 09097]] - 4 volumes. |
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=== Anatomy of an Illness as Perceived by the Patient: Reflections on Healing and Regeneration === |
**Author:** Norman Cousins\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author's reflections generated by his triumph over a crippling disease. Cousins investigates the chemistry of the will to live and factors influencing the capacity for self-healing. He also believes that humor and laughter, along with a strong doctor/patient relationship, aid the body's natural healing powers. **1979**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/55117|DB 55117]] - Read by Bob Moore. Reading time: 5 hours, 2 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/14347|BR 14347]] - 1 volume. |
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=== Stress and Survival: The Emotional Realities of Life-Threatening Illness === |
**Author:** Edited by Charles A. Garfield\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Essays on the importance of interpersonal relations presented by doctors, nurses, mental health professionals, and patients. The basic premise that a supportive human presence can markedly decrease the patient's level of stress while increasing the will to live and capacity to overcome illness is illustrated with concrete examples. **1979**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06189]] - 6 volumes. |
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=== Somatics: Reawakening the Mind's Control of Movement, Flexibility, and Health === |
**Author:** Thomas Hanna\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author explains the "somatic" viewpoint that everything in our lives is a bodily experience. He recommends specific exercises to relieve "sensory-motor amnesia" and slow the aging process. He illustrates his thesis with five case studies and describes exercises in detail. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 31741]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07811|BR 07811]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== The Joy of Stress === |
**Author:** Peter G. Hanson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A Canadian family practitioner tells how we can stop letting stress run our lives. People's lives, Hanson argues, are dependent upon financial sufficiency, personal happiness, sound health, and respect on the job. When people master all four areas, stress can be controlled. The author says to "learn to ignore what you can't control, and learn to control what you can." **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06755]] - volumes. |
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=== The Real Truth about Women and AIDS: How to Eliminate the Risks without Giving Up Love Again and Sex === |
**Author:** Helen Singer Kaplan\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A candid discussion of AIDS specifically aimed at answering questions that women may have about the virus. Includes an explicit discussion of the types of sex deemed "safe" and a warning against relying exclusively on condoms to eliminate the risks of exposure. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[BR 07397]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Stress Passages: Surviving Life's Transitions Gracefully === |
**Author:** L. John Mason\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Divided into chapters on the major stress causing stages of life; pregnancy, parenting, childhood, adolescence, adulthood and work, midlife transition, aging, and death. This book presents techniques and exercises that are designed to help people relax in order to more effectively handle these stages and stresses. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/28955|DB 28955]] - Read by Mary Pederson. Reading time: 9 hours, 44 minutes. |
* [[BR 07755]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Breaking Free from Compulsive Eating === |
**Author:** Geneen Roth\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A former anorexic believes that one's self-image should not depend on weight or on other people's judgment. Roth presents a practical guide "for daily support, direction, and encouragement" of those who use food as a substitute for constructive action. Includes chapters on healthful family meal habits as well as how to handle eating alone or in company, at home or in restaurants. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06352]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Safe Sex: What Everyone Should Know about Sexually Transmitted Diseases === |
**Author:** Angelo T. Scotti with Thomas A. Moore\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A former assistant director of the venereal disease section of the Federal Center for Disease Control addresses the symptoms, treatments, and methods of prevention of many familiar and lesser-known sexually transmitted diseases. Includes discussion of the emotional impact of STDs; a short list of self-help groups; and chapters on pregnancy, contraception, and drug usage. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[BR 07324]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Stop Killing Yourself: Make Stress Work for You === |
**Author:** Susan Seliger\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Guidance in achieving better health through self-control, exercise, proper diet, and mental attitude. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06278]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Love, Medicine, & Miracles: Lessons Learned about Self-Healing from a Surgeon's Experience with Exceptional Patients === |
**Author:** Bernie S. Siegel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A surgeon and professor at Yale Medical School, the author became interested in cancer victims who had regained their health, although diagnosed as incurable. He founded ECaP (Exceptional Cancer Patients), which inspired creative programs based on the belief that miracles occur when the mind is focused on healing. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/26318|DB 26318]] - Read by Jim Bond. Reading time: 9 hours, 22 minutes. |
* [[BR 06561]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Peace, Love & Healing: Bodymind Communication and the Path to Self-healing: An Exploration === |
**Author:** Bernie S. Siegel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
After examining the causes for diseases and the ways people activate illnesses, Siegel discusses how to use self-healing. He does, however, caution people that they should not rely on self-healing alone, but use it in conjunction with treatment by medical professionals. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/30953|DB 30953]] - Read by Jim Bond. Reading time: 10 hours, 40 minutes. |
* [[BR 07837]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Getting Well Again: A Step-by-Step, Self-help Guide to Overcoming Cancer for Patients and Their Families === |
**Author:** O. Carl Simonton, Stephanie Matthews-Simonton, and James. L. Creighton\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Outlines a Painful Breakuppsychological treatment program involving mind-body control, Divorcepositive imaging, and stress management. Endorses the philosophy that individuals must accept responsibility for their own healing. The authors submit considerable evidence that cancer patients can participate successfully in overcoming "terminal" illnesses and have done so. Intended for use in conjunction with standard medical procedures. **1978**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06928]] - volumes. |
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=== Learn to Relax: 13 Ways to Reduce Tension === |
**Author:** C. Eugene Walker\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help guide that briefly presents a number of methods for decreasing anxiety. Among the useful techniques described are relaxation exercises, assertion training, self-hypnosis, and nutrition. **1975**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 02995]] - 1 volume. |
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===== Alcohol, Drug, and Other Addictions ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Alateen--Hope for Children of Alcoholics === |
**Author:** Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, inc.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The story of Alateen, the organization of children of alcoholics. Members share personal experiences, explaining how Alateen has helped them. For junior and senior readers. **1973**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 10360]] |
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=== Alcoholism, the Family Disease === |
**Author:** Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, inc.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
For families and friends of alcoholics, Al-Anon provides a program which is also a spiritual way of life. Based on the suggested Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. **1972**.\\ |
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* [[RC 19492]] |
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=== Living with an Alcoholic with the Help of Al-Anon === |
**Author:** Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, inc.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Written "to help those who feel their personal lives are being or have been affected by the Loss obsessive drinking of a Loved family member or friend." Describes the history and organization of Al-Anon, the nature of alcoholism as an illness, and how the organization may help the family of the alcoholic. **1973**.\\ |
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* [[RC 18513]] |
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=== One Day at a Time in Al-Anon === |
**Author:** Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, inc.\\ |
**Author:** \\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Daily messages for those who must deal with the problem of alcoholism in the family. Suggests ways to find in each day a measure of comfort, serenity and a sense of achievement. **1972**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/12873|DB 12873]] - Read by Patricia Beaudry. Reading time: 7 hours, 52 minutes. |
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=== Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age: A Brief History of A.A. === |
**Author:** Alcoholics Anonymous\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The first part of the book presents a sketch of the St. Louis convention at which Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.) came of age. The second part includes three talks on the history of A.A. given by co-founder Bill W. The third part is devoted to A.A.'s friends, who tell of their association with A.A. and their view of what the future holds for this society. **1985**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27104|DB 27104]] - Read by Randy Atcher. Reading time 13 hours, 25 minutes. |
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=== The Answer to Addiction === |
**Author:** John Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A former Madison Avenue advertising man, with the help of three other recovered alcoholics, believes that the solution to alcoholism is a spiritual conversion and a return to God. **1975**.\\ |
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=== Understanding America's Drinking Problem: How to Combat the Hazards of Alcohol === |
**Author:** Don Cahalan\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Despite the millions of dollars spent on alcoholism treatment over the last two decades, little progress has been made in arresting its incidence or prevalence. The author suggests that a major reason is that elected officials are reluctant to enact legislation to control drinking or to place restrictions on the powerful alcohol industry. The costs and efficiency of various rehabilitative programs, as well as controversies concerning treatment within the health care profession are also discussed. **1987**.\\ |
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=== How to Stay Sober: Recovery without Religion === |
**Author:** James Christopher\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This book is intended for persons who want to give up alcohol but have had problems with the religious beliefs and practices of more traditional groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous. The author, an alcoholic himself, describes a program of self-control and a day-by-day plan for handling alcohol. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/29176|DB 29176]] - Read by Ed Blake. Reading time 3 hours, 21 minutes. |
* [[BR 07599]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== When Luck Runs Out: Help for Compulsive Gamblers and Their Families === |
**Author:** Robert Custer and Harry Milt\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Custer, who developed the first treatment program for compulsive gamblers, and professional writer, Milt, delineate the roots of the disease. They cite the increasingly destructive stages through which the compulsive gambler passes, discuss how the problem can be recognized, and list the steps that can be taken to remedy the behavior. **1985**.\\ |
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=== Breaking Addiction: A 7-step Handbook for Ending Any Addiction === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** John GrayLance M. Dodes\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In this companion to The author Heart of Addiction ([[https://Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venusnlsbard.loc.gov/download/offers suggestions on opening one's self detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/64896|DB 64896]]), Harvard Medical School psychiatrist shares case studies about getting to love after the death root of a mate or after a divorceaddictive behavior. Describes the healing process common to both men Offers a seven-step solution and womenproactive approaches for taking back control. Explains the differences in the ways males and females resolve lossSome strong language. **2011**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.47134detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/77096|DB 4713477096]] - Read by Erik SandvoldBill Wallace. Reading time : 8 7 hours, 57 27 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/11781/prefix/BR|BR 11781]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== = Mars and Venus in the BedroomThe Heart of Addiction: A Guide New Approach to Lasting Romance Understanding and Managing Alcoholism and Passion =Other Addictive Behaviors === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** John GrayLance M. Dodes\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author Psychiatrist addresses addiction's underlying emotional factors: feelings of //Men Are from Marshelplessness, anger at being helpless, Women Are from Venus// offers suggestions to help couples communicate better in the bedroom and therefore keep sex alive in a monogamous relationshipthe need to reassert power. He discusses what Uses case studies to say and dodemonstrate psychological aspects of Internet, what not to say and doshopping, the mechanics of sexexercise, gambling, cleaning, and how to rekindle passionsex addictions. Some strong language Discusses misconceptions and some explicit includes sections about teens and couples. Some descriptions of sex. **2002**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.40459detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/64896|DB 4045964896]] - Read by Erik SandvoldJohn Polk. Reading time: 5 9 hours, 11 27 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/10089/prefix/BR|BR 10089]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== = Crisis Time! Love, Marriage, The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and the Male at Mid-life =Business === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** William A. NolenCharles Duhigg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
When Dr. Nolen turned fiftyNew York Times reporter draws on academic studies, his life started to fall apart. He learned he was suffering from male mid-life crisis syndrome. After surviving this traumainterviews with scientists, he began and industry research into the phenomenonto explore habit formation in individuals, proposing organizations, and societies. Argues that male mid-life crisis is caused by drastic alterations in brain chemistry. Drunderstanding habits, we can change them. Nolen offers advice to help couples survive this crisis Examines how changing habit loops affected the outcomes for Alcoholics Anonymous members, Target shoppers, and resurrect their marriagesothers. **2012**.\\ |
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* [[RC 22093https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/74596|DB 74596]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 11 hours, 36 minutes. |
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=== = Second Wife, Second Best? Managing Your Marriage as a Second Wife =Inside Rehab: The Surprising Truth about Addiction Treatment: And How to Get Help That Works === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Glynnis WalkerAnne M. Fletcher\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Popular social study on the secondAward-wife experience by a second wife herself. The author presents evidence that winning health writer investigates the second wife often suffers unnecessarily effectiveness of drug and unfairly. Such topics as alimonyalcohol rehabilitation centers by visiting fifteen treatment programs and interviewing clients, childrencounselors, stepchildrenand administrators. Challenges common beliefs about addiction and offers insight into different types of therapy, incestsuccess rates, and wills that may relegate a second wife keys to second position are discussedrecovery. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[RC 22025https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76527|DB 76527]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 19 hours, 21 minutes. |
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=== = Marital Separation =Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change: A Guide for Families === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Robert S. WeissJeffrey Foote, Carrie Wilkens, Nicole Kosanke, and Stephanie Higgs\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Deals with coping with the end Drawing on their collective forty years of a marriage and clinic experience, the transition authors offer supportive, nonconfrontational techniques to being single again promote positive behavioral change in family members struggling with addiction and the effect of separation on childrencompulsive disorders. They share case studies demonstrating that kindness, relativespositive reinforcement, and friendsmotivational strategies helped loved ones change their behavior. Discusses new strategies for starting over**2014**.\\ |
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* [[RC 15261https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78349|DB 78349]] - Read by Martha Harmon Pardee. Reading time 12 hours, 37 minutes. |
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=== Sex Addicts Anonymous === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** International Service Organization of SAA, Inc.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Describes the spiritual recovery program for sex addiction that is based on the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous. Explains each of the program's twelve steps and twelve traditions. Includes the personal stories of forty-six recovering addicts. Explicit descriptions of sex. **2005**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/72042|DB 72042]] - Read by Kristin Allison. Reading time: 13 hours, 24 minutes. |
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=== = When Parents Love Too MuchBeyond the Influence: What Happens When Parents Won't Let Go =Understanding and Defeating Alcoholism === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Laurie Ashner Katherine Ketcham and Mitch MeyersonWilliam F. Asbury\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A "spoiled" child is one whose parents love too much. The authors, one a teacher and educational therapistUsing scientific research, the other authors make the case that alcoholism is a psychologist specializing medical disease resulting from abnormalities in dysfunctional families, look at brain chemistry. Explains how to diagnose the dilemmas faced by adult children condition and proposes that treatment programs include psychological and spiritual elements. Investigates fallacies promoted by parents caught in the "overparenting" web, and offer suggestions on ways to change those destructive patternsliquor industry. **2000**.\\ |
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* [[RC 32894https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/49986|DB 49986]] - Read by Gregory Gorton. Reading time: 14 hours, 58 minutes. |
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=== = Making It as a StepparentGoodbye Hangovers, Hello Life: New RolesSelf--New Rules =help for Women === |
**Author:** Claire BermanJean Kirkpatrick\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Advice on Vividly describes the complex problems pain of stepfamiliesalcoholism, by the spokeswoman for recovery, and keys to "the North American Center on Adoptiongood life.Covers such angles as the role of money and possessions" Kirkpatrick, the confusion involved in merging two or more ways founder of life, the alienation of childrenWomen for Sobriety support group program, outlines steps women must take to recover fully, including understanding depression and the shock of instant parenthoodlow self-esteem. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 1744724380]] |
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=== = FamiliesWhat's Wrong With My Kid?: Crisis When Drugs or Alcohol Might Be a Problem and Caring =What to Do About It === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** TGeorge E. Berry BrazeltonLeary\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Using Leary, a social worker and father of a drug addict, provides a guide to help parents recognize the predicaments warning signs of five real families with different situations--parent rivalrysubstance abuse in their children. Discusses the biology of addiction, single parentingmental health issues, step-parenting, family illnesstreatment plans, and adoption--Brazleton offers advice for families confronted with these difficult situationsparenting skills. **2012**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.31715detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76720|DB 3171576720]] - Read by Phil RegensdorfPatrick Downer. Reading time : 8 12 hours, 45 36 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/20109|BR 20109]] - 5 volumes. |
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=== = Straight from the HeartHope: How to Talk to Your Teenagers about Love New Choices and Sex =Recovery Strategies for Adult Children of Alcoholics === |
**Author:** Carol CassellEmily Marlin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A former president of the American Association of Sex Educators Drawing on personal experience and mother of six provides professional training, a sex education family therapist offers a self-help guide for parents to adults seeking to recover from the trauma of teenagersgrowing up in an alcoholic household. Includes suggestions for discussing love, sex, surviving She stresses that recovery is a broken heart, homosexuality, contraception, pregnancylifelong process that begins with understanding the origins of the trauma, and sexually transmitted diseasesoutlines strategies for change and for rebuilding old and forming new relationships. A list of frequently asked questions with the author's answers is also provided**1987**.\\ |
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* [[BR 07091RC 27402]]- 2 volumes. |
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=== = Peace in the FamilyThe Alcoholics Anonymous Experience: A Workbook of Ideas and Actions =Close-up View for Professionals === |
**Author:** Lois Dorn with Penni Eldredge-MartinMilton A. Maxwell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This guide for individuals or for family support groups stresses A health care professional offers a comprehensive picture of current AA operations, including the importance social setting of developing positive relationships. Offers a down-to-earth approach to family living the fellowship and tells how to find alternatives to traditional discipline and solve problems in ways that meet the needs recovery process. Anonymous interviews with members provide an intimate portrait of everyone involvedpersonal and collective aspects of the AA experience. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06058RC 22621]]- 2 volumes. |
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=== Controlling Your Drinking: Tools to Make Moderation Work for You === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** William R. Miller and Ricardo F. Muñoz\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Psychologists’ techniques for alcohol abusers to change harmful patterns and learn to imbibe in moderation. They explain the use of self-monitoring by keeping track, taking charge, and slowing down, and offer practical advice on handling social situations and substituting other behaviors for drinking. **2005**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/60169|DB 60169]] - Read by John Polk. Reading time: 13 hours, 38 minutes. |
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=== = What Do You Really Want The Joy of Being Sober: A Book for Your Children? =Recovering Alcoholics--and Those Who Love Them === |
**Author:** Wayne W. DyerJack Mumey\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide for parents on leading children to become fulfilledformer TV producer and "recovering alcoholic,self-directed adults. Explains in practical terms how " outlines a program designed to instill replace attitudes of self-confidencepity, self-reliance, creativityregret, and compassionguilt with a positive point of view. Mumey offers practical suggestions for reestablishing viable family and other personal relationships. **1984**.\\ |
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=== = P.E.T. in Action =Tough Love: How Parents Can Deal with Drug Abuse === |
**Author:** Thomas Gordon, with Judith Gordon SandsPauline Neff\\ |
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Advice Real-life accounts of young drug users who wanted help and instructive examples for handling family problems through Parent Effectiveness Trainingof their parents' role in seeing that they received it. DrSeven families describe in graphic terms how their children successfully beat the drug habit through the Palmer Drug Abuse Program. Gordon uses verbatim excerpts from his case studies**1982**.\\ |
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* [[RC 1447623197]] |
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=== = Instant ParentThe Hidden Addiction: A Guide for Step-parents, Part-time Parents, and Grandparents =And How to Get Free === |
**Author:** Suzy KalterJanice Keller Phelps and Alan E. Nourse\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide The authors maintain that four of every ten people are addicted to the pitfalls and pratfalls of caring for someone else's children. Written by sugar, caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, or some prescription drugs because they are born with a woman who was painfully innocent when she stepped into instant parenthoodmetabolic or genetic predisposition. Includes Phelps and Nourse offer a calendar program for fighting such addictions that includes heavy doses of thirty days' worth of things to do vitamin and places to go mineral supplements, exercising, and temporary use of antidepressant drugs under a development profile for ages two to twelvephysician's care. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 1680824537]] |
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=== = The How to Stop the One -minute ScoldingYou Love from Drinking: The Amazingly Effective New Approach to Child Discipline =I Know Because Intervention Worked for Me === |
**Author:** Gerald E. NelsonMary Ellen Pinkham\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
As a disciplinary techniquean alcoholic whose habit was destroying her life, Mary Ellen struggled to free herself, and then her husband and sister, from drinking problems. Through the scolding consists of thirty seconds or less of overtintervention technique, voiced anger at a misdeedloving confrontation with the drinker, followed advocated by thirty seconds of equally intense affection. Nelson explains how the technique may be used to teach desirable behavior Families in Crisis Center, she accomplished what most believed to children eighteen months to eighteen years oldbe impossible. **1986**.\\ |
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* [[RC 2294325084]] |
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=== = Saturday ParentChildren of Alcoholism: A Book for Separated Families =Survivor's Manual === |
**Author:** Peter RowlandsJudith S. Seixas and Geraldine Youcha\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A book Offers peer-group support for and about the other parent--the one who lives apart from the children and sees them only occasionallyoffspring of alcoholic parents. The author, Includes a psychologist by training and Saturday parent himself, gives specific tips report on planning long and short visits, introducing newcomers in the noncustodial parent's life, and handling guilt and confusioncase histories of more than two hundred children of alcoholics. **1985**.\\ |
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* [[BR 04873https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/23123|DB 23123]]- 2 volumes. |
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=== = When Your Child Is Afraid =Beautiful Boy: A Father's Journey Through His Son's Addiction === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Robert Schachter and Carole Spearin McCauleyDavid Sheff\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors present Expanding on an extensive discussion award-winning //New York Times Magazine// article, journalist Sheff chronicles his son Nic's descent into methamphetamine addiction and its devastating effects on their family. Relates Nic's cycles of rehabilitation and relapse and his own struggles and realizations. Offers information on the normal fears nature of childhood from infancy through age sixteendrugs. Parents are advised on identifying fears, helping their children deal with them, and recognizing serious fears that may require professional helpStrong language. The final section of the book discusses phobias, their symptoms, causes, and treatments**2008**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07392https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/66107|DB 66107]] - 2 volumesRead by Steven Carpenter. Reading time: 10 hours, 41 minutes. |
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=== = Saying No Is Not EnoughClean: Raising Children Who Make Wise Decisions about Drugs Overcoming Addiction and Alcohol =Ending America's Greatest Tragedy === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Robert SchwebelDavid Sheff\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author of //Beautiful Boy: A clinical psychologist gives practical advice on how to empower children to make wise decisions about drugs and alcoholFather’s Journey through His Son’s Addiction// discusses drug abuse in America. He enumerates ways to raise competent children with well-developed life- Uses case studies and problem-solving skills. He discusses how important it is research in medicine, neuroscience, and psychology to communicate explore the causes and patterns of addiction and suggests ways to begin a dialogtreat it. Information on intervention for the child who is already on drugs is included**2013**.\\ |
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* [[RC 31311https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76745|DB 76745]] - Read by Jeffrey Cummings. Reading time: 13 hours, 33 minutes. |
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=== Crisis Intervention: Acting Against Addiction === |
**Author:** Ed Storti & Janet Keller\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide to the technique of controlled confrontation with those addicted to drugs or alcohol. The book includes case histories of interventions, guidance in selecting an interventionist, a list of treatment centers, and a discussion of the twelve steps to recovery. **1988**.\\ |
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=== = Yes, I Can Say No: A Parent's Guide to Assertiveness Training for Children =Alcoholism === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Manuel JJames D. SmithTorr\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Through adult-child dialog about a range Essays explore the problem of situationsalcoholism, addressing such topics as experimentation with sex and drugsthe effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous, marketing by the author elicits responses that can help a young person withstand negative peer pressure. Smith's program reportedly has fostered positive self-images in liquor industry, effects on children by providing coping techniques. Some descriptions and families, binge drinking in college, the disease theory of sexaddiction, and government regulation. **2000**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06877https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/56317|DB 56317]] - 3 volumesRead by Butch Hoover. Reading time: 8 hours, 40 minutes. |
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=== = Alcoholics Anonymous: The Story of How to Talk with Your Child about Sexuality (Planned Parenthood) =Many Thousands of Men and Women Have Recovered from Alcoholism === |
**Author:** Faye Wattleton and Elisabeth KeifferBill W.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Sensitive, sensible guide for parents that emphasizes Fourth edition of the importance basic 1939 text of creating Alcoholics Anonymous, the "big book." Describes the recovery program and maintaining avenues includes personal histories of communication with a child from preschool years through adulthoodrecovering members. Presents typical questions that each age Highlights founder Bill's story, the self-help groupis likely to ask about sex and supplies direct's twelve traditions, helpful responsesplus medical and religious views of the organization. **2001**.\\ |
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* [[BR 06792https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/67094|DB 67094]] - 2 volumesRead by John Polk. Reading time: 19 hours, 37 minutes. |
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=== == Child Abuse ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== The Courage to HealA Simple Program: A Guide for Women Survivors Contemporary Translation of Child Sexual Abuse the Book Alcoholics Anonymous === |
**Author:** Ellen Bass and Laura DavisBill W.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors, one a counselor and one a survivor This revision of child abuseAlcoholics Anonymous, describe the healing process first published in 1939, uses modern language without gender or relationship assumptions. Explains alcoholism and the importance AA's twelve-step method of recalling painful incidents clearly and recognizing the emotional damage the abuse causedrecovery. They discuss ways to help victims understand that they were not at faultIn AA tradition, and ways to develop self-esteemthe author remains anonymous. Some descriptions of sex**1996**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28461]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/bookdetail/srchprefix/07673DB/prefixbookmag/BR47614|BR 0767347614]] - 6 volumesRead by Patricia McDermott. Reading time: 5 hours, 41 minutes. |
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=== Adult Children at Risk, My Fight Against Child Abuse: A Personal Story and a Public Plea of Alcoholics === |
**Author:** Paula HawkinsJanet Geringer Woititz\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Combination personal saga and political-action tract on A handbook to help the problem children of child abuse by the Florida senatoralcoholics understand their childhood experiences in relating to an alcoholic parent and how these experiences contributed to their personal problems as adults. Hawkins recounts Demonstrates how the personal agonizing that led her to publicly announce that she herself had been abused at cycle can be broken and problems caused by alcoholism avoided in the age of fivenext generation. She discusses case historiesDesigned for individual use, outlines preventive steps, recommends resourcesfor counselors, and provides a checklist to help individuals protect their childrenfor discussion groups. **1983**.\\ |
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=== Secret ScarsDrugs, Alcohol, and Your Children: A Guide for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse How to Keep Your Family Substance-Free === |
**Author:** Cynthia Crosson TowerGeraldine Youcha and Judith S. Seixas\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Written by a therapist and educatorA commonsense guide for parents whose children may be substance abusers or potential abusers. It offers suggestions on keeping the family together, this book defines sexual abuse and quotes case histories getting children to describe its impact. The author examines therapy, self-help groupstalk about their problems, and independent survivor goals and offers advice to survivors on raising their own children. Includes a listing the merits of support organizationsvarious treatment programs. Some descriptions of sex**1989**.\\ |
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==== Braille ==== |
=== The Courage to HealAlateen: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse day at a Time === |
**Author:** Ellen Bass and Laura DavisAl-Anon Family Group Headquarters, inc.\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authorsA thought for each day of the year contributed by the members of Alateen, one a counselor and one a survivor fellowship of child abuse, describe young people whose lives have been affected by the healing process and alcoholism of a family member or close friend. Includes the importance Twelve steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. Alateen is part of recalling painful incidents clearly and recognizing the emotional damage the abuse causedAl-Anon Family Groups. They discuss ways to help victims understand that they were not at fault, For junior and ways to develop self-esteemsenior high and older readers. Some descriptions of sex**1983**.\\ |
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* [[RC 28461]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/07673/prefix/BR|BR 0767307882]] - 6 volumes. |
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=== Outgrowing the PainHow to Stay Sober: A Book for and about Adults Abused as Children Recovery without Religion === |
**Author:** Elaina M. GilJames Christopher\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A therapist helps victims admit This book is intended for persons who want to give up alcohol but have had problems with the full effect religious beliefs and practices of abuse in their livesmore traditional groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous. The author, shows the aftereffects of child abusean alcoholic himself, describes a program of self-control and offers suggestions a day-by-day plan for healinghandling alcohol. **1988**.\\ |
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* [[RC 29176]] |
* [[BR 0637907599]] - 1 volume2 volumes. |
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=== == Health and Healing ==When Your Parent Drinks Too Much: A Book for Teenagers === |
==== Talking Books ====***ADDED 2013***\\ |
==== Braille ====**Author:** Eric Ryerson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, who lived with an alcoholic mother when he was a teenager, describes the problems, fears, and worries that beset him and how he was able to overcome them. For junior and senior high readers. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06645]] - 1 volume. |
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===== Alcohol, Drug, and Other Addictions ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
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===== Aging ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Here Tomorrow: Making the Most of Life After Fifty === |
**Author:** Janet K. Belsky\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Clinical psychologist Belsky, who states that old age starts closer to eighty-five than sixty-five, reports to those over fifty about research in medicine, psychology, and the social sciences. Divided into four parts, the book covers the self, relationships, transitions, and diseases. **1988**.\\ |
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=== Our Bodies, Ourselves: Menopause === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Boston Women’s Health Book Collective\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Describes the process of menopause for women and covers health-care options for its symptoms. Includes medical and alternative treatments such as stress management, diet, and exercise. Discusses scientific research studies and encourages women to focus on making good personal health-care decisions. Highlights women’s natural life transitions. **2006**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[|DB 66354]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 16 hours, 23 minutes. |
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=== Aging is a Family Affair === |
**Author:** Victoria E. Bumagin and Kathryn F. Hirn\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Demonstrates how families have accommodated themselves to changes wrought by time, usually by learning how to listen to and understand other generations. Encourages older men and women to be active and useful. Contains practical advice on managing finances, making decisions for or against nursing homes, and coping with illness and death. **1979**.\\ |
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=== How to Live to Be 100--or More: The Ultimate Diet, Sex, and Exercise Book === |
**Author:** George Burns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Chatty George Burns at eighty-seven recommends martinis and a simple half-hour exercise routine. He cautions against worry and stress and offers a sound diet. With humor he warns about fretting over children, and cautions about doctors and funerals. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/19221|DB 19221]] - Read by Bob Askey. Reading time: 2 hours, 1 minute. |
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=== Love and Sex After 60 === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Robert N. Butler and Myrna I. Lewis\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
With the average life span having increased by more than twenty-five years since the turn of the century and with a more positive attitude towards sexuality in older Americans, two gerontologists offer advice for coping with late-life sexuality. Topics include sexual fitness, common emotional problems, dating, and family reactions. **1996**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/44432|DB 44432]] - Read by Bob Moore. Reading time: 7 hours, 49 minutes. |
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=== Ageless Body, Timeless Mind: The Quantum Alternative to Growing Old === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Deepak Chopra\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Chopra examines the life-styles of long-lived individuals and challenges the assumptions that he contends are the basis of the generally accepted paradigm of aging. Stating that the mind influences every cell in the body, Chopra suggests a new set of "assumptions" regarding aging that he claims will allow people to strive towards an ageless body and a timeless mind. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/37057|DB 37057]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 12 hours, 45 minutes. |
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=== Talking with Your Aging Parents === |
**Author:** Mark A. Edinberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A psychologist specializing in gerontology and family counseling offers a guidebook for children of the elderly. He explains how to open and maintain communication with aging parents and warns offspring against the destructive tendency to act as though they are now "parenting their parents." Explains in detail how to discuss such vital and sensitive issues as terminal illness and death, financial concerns, and nursing homes. **1987**.\\ |
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* [[RC 26848]] |
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=== On Our Own: Independent Living for Older Persons === |
**Author:** Ursula A. Falk\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Americans cherish their independence, and so it is difficult when age raises the specter of dependence. Falk suggests ways in which older people can continue to live successfully on their own. She outlines meal programs, alternative living arrangements, family support systems, leisure activities, and employment opportunities. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31678|DB 31678]] - Read by Dee Weber. Reading time: 7 hours, 6 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/08291|BR 08291]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Women Coming of Age === |
**Author:** Jane Fonda with Mignon McCarthy\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
At age forty-six, Jane Fonda advocates a total approach to health and fitness for the special needs of women thirty-five to sixty-five years of age. She offers concrete information, advice, and encouragement on skin care, body mechanics, menopause, middle-age spread, good nutrition, and the prime-time workout. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21229|DB 21229]] - Read by Jill Ferris. Reading time: 10 hours, 18 minutes. |
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=== Add Years to Your Life and Life to Your Years === |
**Author:** Irene Gore\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Handbook of practical suggestions to prevent falling into a rut and accepting a less-than-flattering image of old age. Dr. Gore believes that decline in advancing years should be due primarily to disease; that lack of mental and physical activity and just plain laziness contribute too much to aging. **1973**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 14491]] |
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=== 50+: The Graedons' People's Pharmacy for Older Adults === |
**Author:** Joe Graedon and Teresa Graedon\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In this general reference book geared toward older people, the authors advocate that patients become actively involved in their own care. They focus on such problems as aging skin, forgetfulness, and osteoporosis. They provide information on when and how to take certain medications, data on drugs most frequently prescribed and ways to save money on prescriptions. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 29848]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07874|BR 07874]] - 5 volumes. |
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=== Treat Me, Not My Age: A Doctor’s Guide to Getting the Best Care as You or a Loved One Gets Older === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Mark Lachs\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Geriatrician offers advice to seniors on obtaining good medical treatment as one ages. Discusses finding the right physician and care facility, making home modifications, implementing lifestyle choices, and planning financially for future needs. **2010**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/72226|DB 72226]] - Read by Butch Hoover. Reading time: 15 hours, 12 minutes. |
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=== Old Age Is Not for Sissies: Choices for Senior Americans === |
**Author:** Art Linkletter\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
TV and radio personality Art Linkletter informs and advises senior citizens on the rights, choices, and opportunities at their disposal. A section is devoted to each of the author's seven "Golden Rights of Senior Americans," which include "The Right to Consideration and Dignity," "The Right to Financial Security," and "The Right to Unrestricted Travel and Leisure." Also included are interviews with celebrated seniors such as Betty White, George Burns, and Bob Hope. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 27335]] |
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=== What’s Age Got to Do With It?: Living Your Healthiest and Happiest Life === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Robin McGraw\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author of Inside My Heart (RC 63472), who is married to television’s Dr. Phil, addresses aging and women. McGraw and a panel of professionals offer advice on health, fashion, psychological well-being, and self-care. They answer common questions concerning fitness programs, nutrition, and hair and skin care. Bestseller. **2009**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[|DB 70204]] - Read by Martha Harmon Pardee. Reading time: 6 hours, 36 minutes. |
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=== Mirror, Mirror: The Terror of Not Being Young === |
**Author:** Elissa Melamed\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A psychologist examines our youth-oriented society, where it is acceptable for men to age but not women. Tracing the historical roots of this discrimination which makes growing older such a torment for many women, she encourages them to express their frustration and anger, to affirm their right to age, and to recognize their responsibility to contribute their unique resources to a precarious world. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 20840]] |
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=== Growing Older, Getting Better: A Handbook for Women in the Second Half of Life === |
**Author:** Jane Porcino\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A gerontologist provides information and encouraging advice on the social, emotional, and physical well-being of women over forty. Includes chapters on family matters, living alone, new beginnings, changing lifestyles, financial independence, menopause, sexuality, fitness, and common health problems of older women. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 19979]] |
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=== Carved in Sand: When Attention Fails and Memory Fades in Midlife === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Cathryn Jakobson Ramin\\ |
A journalist in her forties, dismayed by her unreliable memory, chronicles her journey in pursuit of an agile brain. She interviews experts in the fields of physiology, psychology, and sociology to explore such factors as sleep, stress, diet, exercise, medication, and genetics. **2007**.\\ |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/65246|DB 65246]] - Read by Martha Harmon Pardee. Reading time 10 hours, 30 minutes. |
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=== The Sexy Years: Discover the Hormone Connection: The Secret to Fabulous Sex, Great Health, and Vitality, for Women and Men === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Suzanne Somers\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Actress and health guru describes her search for a cure to the "Seven Dwarfs of Menopause." Drawing on her own experience working with physicians who specialize in natural hormone treatment, Somers explains the value of bioidentical hormones in making menopause the best years of life. **2004**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/58056|DB 58056]] - Read by Suzanne Toren. Reading time 9 hours, 31 minutes. |
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=== Healthy Aging: A Lifelong Guide to Your Physical and Spiritual Well-Being === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Andrew Weil\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Physician and author of //Eight Weeks to Optimum Health// explains the aging process and describes ways to keep healthy while growing older. Covers nutrition, physical activity, vitamins, rest, stress reduction, and maintaining a social and spiritual life. Some descriptions of sex and some strong language. **2005**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/60915|DB 60915]] - Read by Andrew Weil. Reading time 8 hours, 33 minutes. |
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==== Braille ==== |
=== Sex After Sixty: A Guide for Men and Women for Their Later Years === |
**Author:** Robert N. Butler and Myrna I. Lewis\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Information and guidance for mature people on continuing sexual activity. **1976**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 03108]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Vigor Regained: A Simple, Proven Home Program for Restoring Fitness and Vitality === |
**Author:** Herbert A. deVries\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Fully-tested exercise program for adults over 50. Progressive walking or jogging, modified calisthenics, and stretching are some exercises geared to make you feel younger. **1974**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 02804]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Ourselves, Growing Older: Women Aging with Knowledge and Power === |
**Author:** Paula Brown Doress and Diana Laskin Siegal\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Under the auspices of the Boston Women's Health Book Collective and with the help of 300 other writers, the authors offer practical assistance to women in the "second half of life." Includes information on sexuality, employment, retirement and women's roles in society. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07658]] - 10 volumes. |
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=== On Our Own: Independent Living for Older Persons === |
**Author:** Ursula A. Falk\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Americans cherish their independence, and so it is difficult when age raises the specter of dependence. Falk suggests ways in which older people can continue to live successfully on their own. She outlines meal programs, alternative living arrangements, family support systems, leisure activities, and employment opportunities. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/31678|DB 31678]] - Read by Dee Weber. Reading time: 7 hours, 6 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/08291|BR 08291]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Life After Work: Planning It, Living It, Loving It === |
**Author:** Allan Fromme\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A clinical therapist calls upon older Americans to rise to the occasion of retirement and to avoid becoming trapped in patterns that lead them to yearn for the past or to decry the present. Dr. Fromme insists that apathy, boredom, and loneliness do not have to be the lot of today's senior citizens and proposes a plan for making the most of retirement years. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06738]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== 50+: The Graedons' People's Pharmacy for Older Adults === |
**Author:** Joe Graedon and Teresa Graedon\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In this general reference book geared toward older people, the authors advocate that patients become actively involved in their own care. They focus on such problems as aging skin, forgetfulness, and osteoporosis. They provide information on when and how to take certain medications, data on drugs most frequently prescribed and ways to save money on prescriptions. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 29848]] |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/07874|BR 07874]] - 5 volumes. |
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=== Growing Old, Staying Young === |
**Author:** Christopher Hallowell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Science writer Hallowell reports on the aging process as it affects both the individual and society, with attention on the effect that a large older population will have on the United States. He points out the aged hold an exalted position in some countries, while we segregate our aged in retirement communities. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06840]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Alone--Not Lonely: Independent Living for Women Over Fifty === |
**Author:** Jane Seskin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Emphasizes the opportunities for self-awareness, self-growth, and self-fulfillment achievable through independent living. Offers encouragement and practical advice on such topics as defining yourself as a single person, being confident in your status, creating or finding friends and support people, and taking responsibility for all decisions. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06748]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== The Best Years of Your Life === |
**Author:** Miriam Stoppard\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Provides advice on maintaining physical and mental health for men and women over the age of fifty. Among the topics discussed are nutrition and exercise, the changes retirement brings, special problems of the older body, sex, and coping with long-term illness. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06229]] - 3 volumes. |
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===== Disabilities: Deafness and Hearing Loss ===== |
==== How to Survive a Hearing Loss ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Charlotte Himber\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Himber, whose hearing has been impaired for most of her life, is one of more than twenty million Americans with some form of hearing impairment. She chronicles her own hearing loss, her gradual acceptance of it, and her experiences with a variety of hearing aids. She also provides information on various kinds of hearing loss, on how hearing is evaluated, and on how to help friends and families adjust. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:**\\ |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/32878|DB 32878]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 7 hours, 42 minutes. |
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==== In Silence: Growing Up Hearing in a Deaf World ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Ruth Sidransky\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
As a hearing child of deaf parents, Ruth Sidransky learned signing as her first language. Only when she entered school did she master speech. She was placed in a class for **retarded** ("developmentally delayed" or "mentally challenged"???) children until her parents intervened. The richness of her experiences, surrounded by a loving family in a close-knit neighborhood in New York, helped to ease her transfer to the hearing world. **1990**.\\ |
**Available Formats:**\\ |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/32598|DB 32598]] - Read by Laura Giannarelli. Reading time 11 hours, 13 minutes. |
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===== Disabilities: General ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Personal Computers and Special Needs === |
**Author:** Frank G. Bowe\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Individual case studies demonstrate the many ways in which computers can make education, employment, and independent living safer and more enjoyable for people with vision and hearing impairments, mobility limitations, and learning disabilities. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 23573]] |
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=== The Disabled & Their Parents: A Counseling Challenge === |
**Author:** Leo Buscaglia\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The popular lecturer, writer, and educator emphasizes the importance of quality counseling for disabled persons and their families. He reviews the needs and rights of disabled persons, the role of family in their lives, and, in particular, the role of the counselor. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 20580]] - ''IN PROCESS'' |
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=== The Baby Challenge: A Handbook on Pregnancy for Women with a Physical Disability === |
**Author:** Mukti Jain Campion\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Practical guide to motherhood. Covers making the decision to become pregnant, available support services, pregnancy, delivery, and assistance from health professionals. Provides specific information about selected physical disabilities, such as visual impairment and diabetes. Appendices include a list of helpful organizations, other contacts, and a bibliography. **1990**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/33357|DB 33357]] - Read by Kerry Cundiff. Reading time: 7 hours, 1 minute. |
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=== Living Fully: A Guide for Young People with a Handicap, Their Parents, Their Teachers, and Professionals === |
**Author:** Sol Gordon\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Takes a practical and honest look at how handicapped young people can face their problems and achieve full and happy adult lives. **1975**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 12712]] |
* [[BR 03990]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== Making the Best of It--How to Cope with Being Handicapped === |
**Author:** Gillian K. Holzhauser\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A young, legally blind woman offers practical advice, based on her own experiences and insights, on how to develop a healthy attitude and a good outlook on life if one is handicapped. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/24717|DB 24717]] - Read by Rosemary Schwartzel. Reading time: 4 hours, 32 minutes. |
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=== Business and Social Etiquette with Disabled People: A Guide to Getting Along with Persons Who Have Impairments of Mobility, Vision, Hearing, or Speech === |
**Author:** Chalda Maloff and Susan Macduff Wood\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
After interviewing hundreds of people who have lived with impairments for at least three years, the authors offer suggestions about how people with disabilities wish to be treated in both business and social situations. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/29501|DB 29501]] - Read by Ralph Lowenstein. Reading time: 5 hours, 4 minutes. |
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=== Promises to Keep: A Handbook for Parents of Learning Disabled, Brain-injured, and Other Exceptional Children === |
**Author:** David Melton\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The parent of an exceptional child himself, the author provides detailed advice on such topics as finding Dr. Right, financing necessary medical treatments, selecting good day-care services, preserving family relationships, and dealing with psychologists. Melton strongly supports parents' taking care of their brain-injured child at home. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 22807]] |
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=== The Disabled Child and the Family: An Exceptional Parent Reader === |
**Author:** Edited by Maxwell J. Schleifer and Stanley D. Klein\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
62 articles culled from issues of the "Exceptional Parent" magazine. Focuses on issues of family, growing up, and technology, and deals with such topics as reactions to disability, self-esteem of parent and child, relationship dynamics, community, recreation, education, health care, sex education, residential care, adaptive and communication devices, and utilization of computers. Includes directory of resources. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 25386]] - ''IN PROCESS'' |
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=== Joni & Ken: An Untold Love Story === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Ken Tada, Joni Eareckson Tada and Larry Libby\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Disability activist Joni and her husband Ken describe the difficulties that Joni's paralysis and extensive travel with her ministry have caused during their three decades of marriage. They explain ways their faith in God strengthened their relationship and helped them cope with Joni's cancer diagnosis and Ken's depression. **2013**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[|DB 76475]] - Read by Catherine Byers. Reading time 6 hours, 37 minutes. |
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=== Rehabilitation Act Amendments of 1992 === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** United States Congress\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Public Law 102-569 was enacted by Congress on October 29, 1992, "to revise and extend the programs of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973." Provisions of this bill include the establishment of a national council on disability, a study of the needs of American Indians with handicaps, the creation of independent living services for older individuals who are blind, and a section dealing with special training projects. **1992**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/36219|DB 36219]] - Read by Lou Harpenau. Reading time 8 hours, 22 minutes. |
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==== Braille ==== |
=== Living Fully: A Guide for Young People with a Handicap, Their Parents, Their Teachers, and Professionals === |
**Author:** Sol Gordon\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Takes a practical and honest look at how handicapped young people can face their problems and achieve full and happy adult lives. **1975**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 12712]] |
* [[BR 03990]] - 2 volumes. |
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=== After the Tears: Parents Talk about Raising a Child with a Disability === |
**Author:** Robin Simons\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Parents of children with disabilities share their emotions, problems, and experiences in this handbook. Suggestions for dealing with relatives, strangers, and teachers and other professionals are provided, and a list of resources is included. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07173]] - 1 volume. |
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===== Disabilities: Visual Issues ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== Blindness: What It Is, What It Does, and How to Live with It =Braille == |
**Author:** Thomas J. Carroll\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The national chaplain of the Blinded Veterans Association comments on the problems of the blinded adult. While his main theme is rehabilitation and restoration, he begins by discussing the shattering experience of sight loss and its implications. **1961**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/20473|DB 20473]] - Read by Kerry Cundiff. Reading time: 13 hours, 56 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/16701|BR 16701]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Making Life More Livable: Simple Adaptations for the Homes of Blind and Visually Impaired Older People === |
**Author:** Irving R. Dickman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In a question-answer format, the author offers suggestions and options for the older person who has deteriorating vision and lives at home. The author suggests safe ways of dealing with obstacles that may be encountered in the kitchen, bathroom, and other rooms of the house. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 22319]] |
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=== Coping with Low Vision === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Marshall E. Flax, Don J. Golembiewski, & Bette L. McCaulley\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Information for everyone coping with visual impairment, including friends, family, and care givers. The term "low vision" is defined, and an analysis of the visual system is given. Topics such as diseases, optical aids, mobility, and myths and feelings about visual impairment are discussed. Almost half of the book is devoted to resources for coping with vision loss and answers to common questions and concerns. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/38113|DB 38113]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 3 hours, 38 minutes. |
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=== How Do I Do This When I Can't See What I'm Doing? Information Processing for the Visually Disabled === |
**Author:** Gerald Jahoda\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Calling upon his own experiences, the author describes how visually impaired persons can gather and process information, including using computers as assistive devices. He also discusses personal information management systems, jobs and leisure activities, daily living, and organizations that assist visually disabled persons. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/36212|DB 36212]] - Read by John Stratton. Reading time: 3 hours, 16 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/09176|BR 09176]] - 1 volume. |
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=== Blinded by Sight: Seeing Race Through the Eyes of the Blind === |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Osagie K. Obasogie\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Legal scholar explores the ways blind people experience racial differences. Argues that we are socialized to attach particular characteristics to race regardless of our ability to see and considers the implications of that convention on efforts to achieve a "colorblind" society. **2014**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78044|DB 78044]] - Read by Gary Telles. Reading time 14 hours, 14 minutes. |
* [[BR 20441]] - **IN PROCESS** |
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=== When the Cook Can't Look: A Cooking Handbook for the Blind and Visually Handicapped === |
**Author:** Ralph Read\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, who became blind in adulthood, offers practical, safe, and easy cooking methods for sightless people, including how to measure ingredients, light the stove, chop onions, and serve and eat gracefully. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 17940]] |
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=== If Blindness Strikes--Don't Strike Out: A Lively Look at Living with a Visual Impairment === |
**Author:** Margaret M. Smith\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, blind since birth, has worked with the visually handicapped since completing her master's degree in journalism. Designed primarily to help blind people cope, the volume is crammed with anecdotes and information that offers the sighted a realistic glimpse into what it is like to live without sight. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21060|DB 21060]] - Read by Kerry Cundiff. Reading time: 11 hours, 36 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/05858|BR 05858]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Self-Esteem and Adjusting with Blindness: The Process of Responding to Life's Demands === |
**Author:** Dean W. Tuttle and Naomi R. Tuttle\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Third edition of a manual written for professionals who work with blind and low-vision individuals. Topics include an overview of blindness and its meaning for the individual. Describes the adjustment to the condition, psychological implications, and issues of self-esteem. Includes case studies. **2004**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/66055|DB 66055]] - Read by Lou Harpenau. Reading time: 13 hours, 27 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16647|BR 16647]] - 4 volumes. |
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=== How Do You Kiss a Blind Girl? === |
***ADDED 2014*** |
**Author:** Sally Wagner\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A newspaper reporter shares the story of her adjustment to blindness resulting from a complication of diabetes. She also offers advice about living with friends and strangers who have disabilities. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/27117|DB 27117]] - Read by Pam Ward. Reading time 4 hours, 42 minutes. |
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=== Macular Disease: Practical Strategies for Living with Vision Loss === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Peggy R. Wolfe\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Second edition of guidebook suggests strategies to compensate for declining vision. Provides tips for organizing one's home; dealing with financial, personal, and legal affairs; and maximizing one's independence. Lists technological devices available and organizations and businesses that offer assistance. **2011**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76495|DB 76495]] - Read by Carol Dines. Reading time 5 hours, 8 minutes. |
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===== Disabilities: Mobility Issues ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
==== Braille ==== |
=== Blindness: What It Is, What It Does, and How to Live with It === |
**Author:** Thomas J. Carroll\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The national chaplain of the Blinded Veterans Association comments on the problems of the blinded adult. While his main theme is rehabilitation and restoration, he begins by discussing the shattering experience of sight loss and its implications. **1961**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/20473|DB 20473]] - Read by Kerry Cundiff. Reading time: 13 hours, 56 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16701|BR 16701]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== How Do I Do This When I Can't See What I'm Doing? Information Processing for the Visually Disabled === |
**Author:** Gerald Jahoda\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Calling upon his own experiences, the author describes how visually impaired persons can gather and process information, including using computers as assistive devices. He also discusses personal information management systems, jobs and leisure activities, daily living, and organizations that assist visually disabled persons. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/36212|DB 36212]] - Read by John Stratton. Reading time: 3 hours, 16 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09176|BR 09176]] - 1 volume. |
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=== If Blindness Strikes--Don't Strike Out: A Lively Look at Living with a Visual Impairment === |
**Author:** Margaret M. Smith\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author, blind since birth, has worked with the visually handicapped since completing her master's degree in journalism. Designed primarily to help blind people cope, the volume is crammed with anecdotes and information that offers the sighted a realistic glimpse into what it is like to live without sight. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21060|DB 21060]] - Read by Kerry Cundiff. Reading time: 11 hours, 36 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/05858|BR 05858]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Self-Esteem and Adjusting with Blindness: The Process of Responding to Life's Demands === |
**Author:** Dean W. Tuttle and Naomi R. Tuttle\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Third edition of a manual written for professionals who work with blind and low-vision individuals. Topics include an overview of blindness and its meaning for the individual. Describes the adjustment to the condition, psychological implications, and issues of self-esteem. Includes case studies. **2004**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/66055|DB 66055]] - Read by Lou Harpenau. Reading time: 13 hours, 27 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16647|BR 16647]] - 4 volumes. |
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===== DISABILITIES: MOBILITY ISSUES ===== |
==== Sexual Adjustment: A Guide for the Spinal Cord Injured ==== |
**Author:** Martha Ferguson Gregory\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Overview of the physical and psychological problems of paraplegics, showing how to overcome obstacles to sexual fulfillment. Also informative for individuals with other physical handicaps. **1974**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 07914]] |
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==== Triumph! Conquering Your Physical Disability ==== |
**Author:** LeRoy Hayman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Hayman was disabled in his early thirties by a freak accident that caused massive brain damage. He tells how the daily victories achieved since his near-death experience have made him a winner. Interviews with other disabled people focus on self-esteem, living in the present, education and careers, health and recreation, and travel. For high school and adult readers. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21100|DB 21100]] |
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==== The Sensuous Wheeler: Sexual Adjustment for the Spinal Cord Injured ==== |
**Author:** Barry J. Rabin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An experienced psychologist and sex counselor offers a survey of information on sexuality as it relates to people with Spinal Cord Injuries. Discusses sexual response and functioning, sexual options, and specific methods for achieving sexual satisfaction. May be used by professionals as a counseling guide and by persons with Spinal Cord Injuries as a self-help aid. **1980**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/16641|DB 16641]] - Read by Hal Tenny. Reading time: 7 hours, 6 minutes. |
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==== The Wheelchair Child: How Handicapped Children Can Enjoy Life to Its Fullest ==== |
**Author:** Philippa Russell\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A comprehensive guide for people living or working with children who use wheelchairs. Detailed discussions cover a variety of concerns, from choosing schools, pets, sports, mobility aids, and special furniture to discussions of toilet training, sibling rivalry, and adolescent sexuality. Lists addresses for manufacturers of special products discussed and organizations serving the handicapped. **1985**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/23481|DB 23481]] |
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==== An Easier Way: Handbook for the Elderly and Handicapped ==== |
**Author:** Jean Vieth Sargent\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
This book was compiled from a series of articles published in two Iowa newspapers on the needs of elderly and handicapped persons who want to remain independent. Suggestions include cups for shaky hands, writing aids for the arthritic, a tricky way to puncture a tall juice can with only one hand, and a sock "taker-offer." **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/21628|DB 21628]] - Read by Ila Toney. Reading time: 3 hours, 20 minutes. |
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===== Providing Care for a Loved One ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
=== = Braille =Caring for Yourself While Caring for Your Aging Parents: How to Help, How to Survive === |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Claire Berman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A guide for children who care for aging parents. Offers advice on balancing the needs of parent and caregiver, while protecting the physical and emotional health of the latter. Covers key areas such as sibling stress, communication, and the nursing home dilemma. **1996**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/42931|DB 42931]] - Read by Margaret Strom. Reading time: 7 hours, 24 minutes. |
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=== Caring for Your Aging Parents: A Concerned, Complete Guide for Children of the Elderly ==Death = |
**Author:** Robert R. Cadmus\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Practical guide for dealing with the problem of "What to do with Mom and Bereavement Dad?" Coverage includes healthy attitudes toward retirement, the importance of seeing that one's parents find new and appropriate life-styles after sixty-five, maintenance of good nutritional and exercise habits, and the dangers of depression and isolation. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 22946]] |
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=== Where Can Mom Live? A Family Guide to Living Arrangements for Elderly Parents === |
**Author:** Vivian F. Carlin and Ruth Mansberg\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Describes alternative housing choices for elderly people, such as home sharing, group homes, and congregate and life-care communities, and discusses the pros and cons of each. Also provides lists of agencies and other resources. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 27887]] |
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=== The Loss of Self: A Family Resource for the Care of Alzheimer's Disease and Related Disorders =Talking Books == |
**Author:** Donna Cohen and Carl Eisdorfer\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors attempt to set ground rules that will help a family cope with the emotional and physical stress of caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease who becomes increasingly irrational, helpless, and even violent. Includes accounts of how various families have dealt with and solved some of the problems. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 24256]] |
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=== What Every Family Should Know about Strokes === |
**Author:** Lucille J. Hess and Robert E. Bahr\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A practicing speech pathologist and a family physician describe the causes and the effects of strokes. Book emphasizes how families can cope with the changes in relationships, attitudes, income, and environment that strokes can cause. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 20800]] |
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=== Caring for the Parkinson Patient: A Practical Guide =Braille == |
**Author:** Edited by J. Thomas Hutton and Raye Lynne Dippel\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Parkinson's disease afflicts thousands of older Americans and affects many more who are concerned with their care. Although neither cause nor cure is known, this series of essays addresses the diagnosis, possible complications, and treatment of this neurological disorder. The book also provides professional, practical advice for families and other community support systems. **1989**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/32558|DB 32558]] - Read by Butch Hoover. Reading time 6 hours, 38 minutes. |
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=== Heartmates: A Survival Guide for the Cardiac Spouse === |
**Author:** Rhoda F. Levin\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Drawing on personal experience and professional training, a psychotherapist offers a guide for the spouses and families of heart attack survivors. She provides advice on changing roles and responsibilities following a cardiac crisis, and confronts such issues as the long recovery period, concerns over stress and finances, guilt, fear, fatigue, and sexuality. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 27419]] |
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=== The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for Persons with Alzheimer Disease, Related Dementing Illnesses, and Memory Loss in Later Life === |
**Author:** Nancy L. Mace and Peter V. Rabins\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Third edition (updating RC 19261) of guide for families whose members suffer from dementia. Covers a wide array of related social, medical, psychological, financial, and legal problems and suggests possible solutions. Includes information on hospice and assisted facility care and advances in medical research. **1999**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/52028|DB 52028]] - Read by Janis Gray. Reading time: 17 hours, 39 minutes. |
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=== Caring for Your Parents: The Complete AARP Guide === |
**Author:** Hugh Delehanty and Elinor Ginzler\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
AARP's advice for middle-aged people on assisting one's aging parents. Subjects include communicating about issues, advocating on health and legal care, determining financial status, finding caretakers and suitable living arrangements, and, eventually, letting go and grieving. Includes resources. **2005**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/60482|DB 60482]] - Read by Jill Ferris. Reading time: 10 hours, 48 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16115|BR 16115]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Home Care for the Elderly: A Complete Guide === |
**Author:** Jay Portnow and Martha Houtmann\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Practical working guide that covers home care from the basics of providing good nutrition and a pleasant, safe environment for the aging to step-by-step instructions on caring for the bedridden. Includes a checklist for evaluating a nursing home, an overview of national resources and tips on obtaining emergency assistance, supplies, and facts on Medicare. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 26621]] |
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=== Mainstay: For the Well Spouse of the Chronically Ill === |
**Author:** Maggie Strong\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An account of how the author coped with the deteriorating health of her spouse, who had multiple sclerosis. Using her experiences and those of others in similar situations, she offers advice on such topics as maintaining family relationships, rearing children, handling financial burdens, and dealing with health professionals. The appendix offers a list of organizations offering help. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28292]] |
* [[BR 07572]] - 4 volumes. |
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=== Home Care for the Elderly === |
**Author:** Julie Trocchio\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
How-to guide in the basics of home care nursing for older invalids. Deals with the aging process, emotional support, nutrition, special conditions often encountered by elderly people, and their need to be treated with respect and love. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 19573]] |
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===== General ===== |
==== Talking Books ==== |
==== Braille ==== |
=== Caring for Your Parents: The Complete AARP Guide === |
**Author:** Hugh Delehanty and Elinor Ginzler\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
AARP's advice for middle-aged people on assisting one's aging parents. Subjects include communicating about issues, advocating on health and legal care, determining financial status, finding caretakers and suitable living arrangements, and, eventually, letting go and grieving. Includes resources. **2005**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/60482|DB 60482]] - Read by Jill Ferris. Reading time: 10 hours, 48 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16115|BR 16115]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Helping Your Aging Parents: A Practical Guide for Adult Children ==Unemployment= |
**Author:** James Halpern\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A family therapist with clinical experience offers support and advice to those whose parents are coping with old age. Halpern aims to equip these adult children with information and strategies they will need to aid their parents. Provides lists of state agencies on aging, information on nursing homes, hospice facilities, and donor cards. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 07480]] - 3 volumes. |
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=== Mainstay: For the Well Spouse of the Chronically Ill === |
**Author:** Maggie Strong\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An account of how the author coped with the deteriorating health of her spouse, who had multiple sclerosis. Using her experiences and those of others in similar situations, she offers advice on such topics as maintaining family relationships, rearing children, handling financial burdens, and dealing with health professionals. The appendix offers a list of organizations offering help. **1988**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 28292]] |
* [[BR 07572]] - 4 volumes. |
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===== DEATH & BEREAVEMENT ===== |
==== The Hospice Handbook: A Complete Guide ==== |
***ADDED 2014*** |
**Author:** Larry Beresford\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Beresford has been involved with the concept of hospice since 1978, when his mother was diagnosed with cancer and received hospice care. At several facilities around the country he talked with staff, patients, and family members. He offers information on the philosophy of hospice; services provided, including caring for patients at home; and issues such as referral, finances, barriers to hospice access, and legal considerations. **1993**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https:/Job Hunting (Added /nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/38968|DB 38968]] - Read by Dick Jenkins. Reading time 6 hours, 24 minutes. |
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==== Widower ==== |
**Author:** Scott Campbell and Phyllis Silverman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Firsthand accounts from twenty widowers who describe in depth their reactions to the deaths of their spouses, whether from illness, suicide, or murder. Provides not only a practical guide for the bereaved, but also insight into how self-help programs can ease the pain and help the mourner to live once again. **1987**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 27186]] |
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==== When a Friend Dies: A Book for Teens about Grieving & Healing ==== |
***ADDED 2013) ***\\ |
**Author:** Marilyn E. Gootman and Pamela Espeland\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Advice for teens on handling grief, anger, guilt, and depression after a friend dies. Includes quotes from youths who have experienced the loss of someone their age. Offers suggestions for seeking help from family, counselors, and/or therapists. For junior and senior high readers. **2005**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/66273|DB 66273]] - Read by Gabriella Cavallero. Reading time: 1 hour, 4 minutes. |
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==== On Children and Death ==== |
**Author:** Elisabeth Kübler-Ross\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A renowned psychiatrist considers the difficulties faced by parents who are losing or have lost a child. She offers compassionate and practical help for coping with the loss of a child through miscarriage or stillbirth, terminal illness, or accidental or violent death. **1983**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 05868]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Talking Books Survival Handbook for Widows: And for Relatives and Friends Who Want to Understand ==== |
**Author:** Ruth Jean Loewinsohn\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explores what is known about a woman's reaction to the death of her husband and offers practical advice as well as emotional support. Suggestions are given on settling estate claims and on estate planning, on getting others to help, and on entering a new lifestyle. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 25877]] |
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==== When Parents Die: A Guide for Adults ==== |
**Author:** Edward Myers\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
An analysis of the problems and emotional reactions experienced by those who have lost a parent, and how they coped. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06931]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== How Do We Tell the Children? A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children Two to Teen Cope When Someone Dies ==== |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Guide for parents, older siblings, and other caregivers who are helping children deal with death. This third edition includes a section on assisting children to cope with traumatic loss. Provides instructions both for specific types of loss and for children of specific ages. **2001**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/54913|DB 54913]] - Read by John Hammock. Reading time: 7 hours, 5 minutes. |
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==== The Bereaved Parent ==== |
**Author:** Harriet Sarnoff Schiff\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Written by one who suffered "the ultimate tragedy," the death of her child, this book conveys a positive self-help message of survival. Schiff recommends that we carry our sadness rather than let it carry us. **1977**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/29210|DB 29210]] - Read by Sara Morsey. Reading time 4 hours, 22 minutes. |
* [[BR 05475]] - 1 volume. |
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==== Living Through Mourning: Finding Comfort and Hope When a Loved One Has Died ==== |
**Author:** Harriet Sarnoff Schiff\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Manual designed to assist the bereaved and those around them. Focuses on the death of a loved one, describing the grieving process and suggesting ways to cope with the loss. Includes advice on relating to others during the mourning period. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/25917|DB 25917]] - Read by Kay Bergen. Reading time: 11 hours, 13 minutes. |
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==== When Someone Dies: The Practical Guide to the Logistics of Death ==== |
***ADDED 2013***\\ |
**Author:** Scott Taylor Smith with Michael Castleman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Smith, an investment banker and lawyer, uses personal experience and advice from estate attorneys to provide a step-by-step guide to the practical decisions that must be made following the death of a loved one. Discusses funeral and related expenses, and covers paying outstanding bills and settling the estate. **2013**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76454|DB 76454]] - Read by Bill Wallace. Reading time: 5 hours, 33 minutes. |
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==== Living Through Personal Crisis ==== |
**Author:** Ann Kaiser Stearns\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A self-help guide to dealing with loss, grief, and guilt. Based on her personal acquaintance and professional experience with bereavement, the author offers insight and support for facing loss and allowing the healing process to unfold. **1984**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 22639]] |
* [[BR 05954]] - 2 volumes. |
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===== GENERAL ===== |
==== Having It All: Love, Success, Sex, Money, Even If You're Starting with Nothing ==== |
**Author:** Helen Gurley Brown\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The editor of "Cosmopolitan" magazine offers her wit and wisdom and cheery common-sensible advice on men and women, sex and marriage, work and love, health and money. Some explicit descriptions of sex. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/18684|DB 18684]] - Read by Terry Hayes Sales. Reading time: 17 hours, 26 minutes. |
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==== Dr. Dobson Answers Your Questions ==== |
**Author:** James Dobson\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Contains more than four hundred typical questions which people bring to this family psychologist, with answers drawn from his experience in the counseling office and from the university classroom. Some of the topics included are marital relationships, the care of infants, the disciplining of young children, and physical problems. **1982**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 21187]] |
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==== The Ann Landers Encyclopedia, A to Z: Improve Your Life Emotionally, Medically, Sexually, Socially, Spiritually ==== |
**Author:** Ann Landers\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Includes four hundred essays by physicians, psychiatrists, business people, attorneys, teachers, clergymen, and psychologists, with Landers's comments on the experts' articles and a number of topics of her own. Landers interjects some of her memorable newspaper columns. Some explicit descriptions of sex. **1978**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 13412]] |
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==== How to Do Just About Anything ==== |
***ADDED 2014***\\ |
**Author:** Reader's Digest Association\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
In this comprehensive guide to solving common household problems are such diverse topics as making a pie crust, fixing a squeaky door, curing laryngitis, and how to get your rent deposit returned. Skills and tools needed to complete most jobs are suggested, as well as advice on when to seek professional help. **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/29903|DB 29903]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 43 hours, 46 minutes. |
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==== The Healing Circle: Authors Writing of Recovery ==== |
**Author:** Mary Swander and Patricia Foster\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Explores strategies of recovery for people with chronic illnesses or long-term injuries from accidents. The writers, including such literary artists as Jane Smiley, Dennis Covington, and Andrew Sullivan, discuss disability and recovery in the context of personal experience. Examines the notion that healing through imagination is an act of courage. **1998**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/50192|DB 50192]] - Read by Kimberly Schraf. Reading time 11 hours, 22 minutes. |
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==== The Best of Dear Abby ==== |
**Author:** Abigail Van Buren\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Collection of the author's syndicated columns with a brief story of her life as Pauline Esther Friedman, twin of Esther Pauline, the popular columnist Ann Landers. The remainder of the book is made up of letters and snappy responses. The correspondence is arranged by topics such as marriage, sex, snoring, teen traumas, infidelity, pets, and aging. **1981**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[RC 17329]] |
* [[BR 05028]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== Kim Williams' Book of Uncommon Sense: A Practical Guide with 10 Rules for Nearly Everything ==== |
**Author:** Kim Williams\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Here, in humorous, pithy essays and verses, the author, a popular commentator on the "All Things Considered" radio show delivers tips on coping with life's problems. Among the subjects included are doctors, family life, fickle fashion, stingy banks, politicians, and "practically everything." **1986**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[BR 06534]] |
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===== UNEMPLOYMENT / JOB HUNTING (Added 2013) ===== |
==== Successful Job Search Strategies for the Disabled: Understanding the ADA ==== |
**Author:** Jeffrey G. Allen\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Allen addresses the more than forty million Americans who are disabled, sixty percent of whom are unemployed. He offers advice on finding a job, gives an overview of the ADA, and discusses topics such as: where jobs are, self-assessment for a job, what to disclose regarding a disability, interview guidelines, accommodations, and enforcement of the ADA guidelines. **1994**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.39730|DB 39730]] - Read by Art Metzler. Reading time: 9 hours, 31 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09834detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/09834|BR 09834]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Job-Hunting Tips for the So-Called Handicapped or People Who Have Disabilities a Supplement to What Color Is Your Parachute? ==== |
**Author:** Richard Nelson Bolles\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[DB 53895]] - **IN PROCESS** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/14098detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/14098|BR 14098]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== What Color Is Your Parachute? A Practical Manual For Job-Hunters and Career-Changers ==== |
**Author:** Richard Nelson Bolles\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Revised and updated edition of the popular guide for determining job objectives and career goals. This 2005 2014 version assesses the impact of global outsourcing offers advice on job growth as compared to actual job vacanciessocial media and search tactics and discusses interviewing, which are the product of constant employment turnover. Offers advice for finding a niche. Includes resourcesnetworking, negotiating salary, beginning your own business, changing careers, and dealing with handicaps. **20052013**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.61233detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/77533|DB 6123377533]] - Read by Ken KlibanBill Burton. Reading time : 16 14 hours, 10 43 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/16193detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/16193|BR 16193]] - **2005 edition** - 4 volumes. |
* [[BR 20222]] - **2014 edition** - **IN PROCESS** |
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==== What Color Is Your Parachute? for Teens: Discovering Yourself, Defining Your Future ==== |
**Author:** Richard Nelson Bolles and Carol Christen, with Jean M. Blomquist\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Revised and updated edition of the popular guide for determining job objectives and career goals. This 2005 version assesses the impact of global outsourcing on job growth as compared to actual job vacancies, which are the product of constant employment turnover. Offers advice for finding a niche. Includes resources. **2005**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/db.62321|DB 62321]] - Read by Ken Kliban. Reading time: 16 hours, 10 minutes. |
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==== Braille Daddy Lost His Job (Children's Book) ==== |
=== Successful Job Search Strategies for the Disabled: Understanding the ADA === |
**Author:** Jeffrey G. AllenJennifer Moore-Mallinos\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Allen addresses the more than forty million Americans who are disabledWhen siblings learn that their father has lost his job, sixty percent of whom are unemployedthey launch Operation Save to cut expenses and help their family. He offers advice Offers tips on finding a job, gives an overview of the ADA, ways parents can include their kids in family decisions and discusses topics such as: where jobs are, selfchanges caused by unemployment. For grades K-assessment for a job, what to disclose regarding a disability, interview guidelines, accommodations, and enforcement of the ADA guidelines3. **19942012**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/detail/prefix/db.39730DB/bookmag/78337|DB 3973078337]] - Read by Art MetzlerAbigail Maupin. Reading time : 9 hours, 31 10 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/09834/prefix/BR|BR 09834]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Job -Hunting Tips Search Handbook for the So-Called Handicapped or People Who Have with Disabilities a Supplement to What Color Is Your Parachute? ==== |
**Author:** Richard Nelson BollesDaniel J. Ryan\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The author defines a disability and discusses vocabulary that is important Comprehensive resource guide to career development for people with disabilities. While he is primarily interested in helping people looking for workCovers locating openings, he is also eager to educate employers. He prepares both sides preparing for the interviewing processinterviews, writing resumes, using government programs, networking, offering hope and practical suggestionssucceeding at work. Discusses available accommodations and provides job links from the U.S. Department of Labor Office of Disability Employment Policy. **20012011**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB53895/bookmag/77534|DB 77534]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 12 hours, 2 minutes. |
* [[BR 20270]] - **2011 Edition** - **IN PROCESS** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/14098detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/15463|BR 1409815463]] - 2 **2005 Edition** - 3 volumes. |
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===What Color Is Your Parachute? A Practical Manual For Job== RETURNING VETS / MILITARY FAMILIES (Added 2013) ===== |
==== Flashback: Post-Hunters Traumatic Stress Disorder, Suicide, and Career-Changers the Lessons of War ==== |
**Author:** Richard Nelson BollesPenny Coleman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
Revised Vietnam War widow studies the link between war-induced post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and updated edition suicide. Includes the history of PTSD and interviews with veterans' families. Warns that a non-responsive military system will cause the popular guide suicide rate of soldiers in Iraq to exceed that of Vietnam veterans. Some strong language. **2006**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/64341|DB 64341]] - Read by Michele Schaeffer. Reading time: 7 hours, 14 minutes. |
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==== On Killing: The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society ==== |
**Author:** Dave Grossman\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
A psychologist and former army officer examines the specific nature of the act of killing and its social and psychological implications and repercussions. Compares modern military combat training to conditioning children through media and video-game violence. Some descriptions of sex, some violence, and some strong language. **1996**.\\ |
**Available Formats:** |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/53109|DB 53109]] - Read by Rick Rohan. Reading time: 12 hours, 19 minutes. |
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==== Special Needs Families in the Military: A Resource Guide ==== |
**Author:** Janelle Hill and Don Philpott\\ |
**Annotation:**\\ |
The authors of //The Wounded Warrior Handbook// (DB 68275) provide advice for determining job objectives military families dealing with special-needs children and career goalsadults. This 2005 version assesses They discuss benefits and treatment options and highlight the impact importance of global outsourcing on job growth acting as compared an advocate for one's child. Includes resources section that lists support groups. **2011**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/72224|DB 72224]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 12 hours, 51 minutes. |
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==== The Wounded Warrior Handbook: A Resource Guide for Returning Veterans ==== |
**Author:** Janelle Hill, Don Philpott, and Cheryl Lawhorne\\ |
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Guide for injured U.S. military veterans and their families provides information on medical treatment, rehabilitation, mental-health counseling, family support, and transitioning to actual job vacanciescivilian life. Details benefits, which are taxes, and legal issues and discusses bereavement. Includes resources and success stories.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/68275|DB 68275]] - **2009 Edition** - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 19 hours, 52 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/75316|DB 75316]] - **2012 Edition** - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 24 hours, 56 minutes. |
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==== Life After the product Military: A Handbook for Transitioning Veterans ==== |
**Author:** Janelle Hill, Don Philpott, and Cheryl Lawhorne-Scott\\ |
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A guide for veterans leaving the military. Discusses the emotional and psychological challenges of constant becoming a civilian and ways for families to cope with the change. Includes information on obtaining employmentturnover, furthering education, and managing finances. Offers advice Lists relevant websites. **2011**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76698|DB 76698]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time 17 hours, 35 minutes. |
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==== Combat-Related Traumatic Brain Injury and PTSD: A Resource and Recovery Guide ==== |
**Author:** Cheryl Lawhorne and Don Philpott\\ |
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Guidance for finding a nichemilitary veterans--and their families--who are dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and/or combat-related traumatic brain injuries (TBI). Includes Authors describe symptoms and diagnoses; discuss treatment options; and list resources for rehabilitation, support, and insurance and benefits issues. **2010**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/72228|DB 72228]] - Read by Kerry Dukin. Reading time: 12 hours, 54 minutes. |
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==== Military Mental Health Care: A Guide for Service Members, Veterans, Families, and Community ==== |
**Author:** Cheryl Lawhorne-Scott and Don Philpott\\ |
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Resource guide for U.S. military veterans and their families provides information on medical treatment, rehabilitation, counseling, transition, and other care needed for mental and physical health. Includes information on traumatic brain injury, post-traumatic stress disorder, suicide, and other psychological issues. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76384|DB 76384]] - Read by Peter Johnson. Reading time: 10 hours, 23 minutes. |
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==== Through Veterans' Eyes: The Iraq and Afghanistan Experience ==== |
**Author:** Larry Minear\\ |
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Commentary from post-9/11 veterans collected from the Library of Congress Veterans History Project and supplemented by author interviews. Covers reasons for enlisting; dealing with combat, local populations, and contractors; and living with post-traumatic stress disorder and brain injury. Strong language and some violence. **2010**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/73626|DB 73626]] - Read by Peter Johnson. Reading time: 9 hours, 18 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/19370|BR 19370]] - 3 volumes. |
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==== Final Salute: A Story of Unfinished Lives ==== |
**Author:** Jim Sheeler\\ |
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Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter Sheeler recounts the two years he spent shadowing marine major Steve Beck, an officer whose job is to notify the families of fallen soldiers. Sheeler portrays the lives of the deceased, Beck's efforts to comfort the grieving relatives, and the toll on surviving kin. **2008**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/67110|DB 67110]] - Read by Roy Avers. Reading time: 6 hours, 48 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/17911|BR 17911]] - 2 volumes. |
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==== The Things They Cannot Say: Stories Soldiers Won't Tell You About What They've Seen, Done, or Failed to Do in War ==== |
**Author:** Kevin Sites\\ |
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Eleven veterans--including the author, an award-winning war correspondent--discuss their combat experiences in World War II Europe, Vietnam, and the Middle East. They relate the difficulties of returning to civilian life and dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder. Violence and strong language. Commercial audiobook. **2013**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/76432|DB 76432]] - Read by Donald Corren. Reading time: 7 hours, 47 minutes. |
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==== After the War Zone: A Practical Guide for Returning Troops and Their Families ==== |
**Author:** Laurie B. Slone and Matthew J. Friedman\\ |
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Two experts in post-traumatic stress disorder address the needs of soldiers returning home after their tour of duty. The authors detail the emotional cycle of deployment and common reactions to the trauma of war. They discuss case studies and the effect of community and family support on service members. **2008**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/67380|DB 67380]] - Read by Jill Ferris. Reading time: 13 hours, 4 minutes. |
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==== Federal Benefits for Veterans, Dependents and Survivors ==== |
**Author:** U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs\\ |
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U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs 2012 summary of benefits provided to eligible individuals. Covers health care, service-related disabilities, pensions, education and training, home loans, life insurance, burial and memorial benefits, transition assistance, and dependents and survivors. **2012 edition**.\\ |
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* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/75377|DB 75377]] - Read by Annie Wauters. Reading time: 6 hours, 1 minute. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/BR/bookmag/19606|BR 19606]] - 2 volumes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/72994|DB 72994]] - **Spanish, 2011 edition**. Read by Harry Froget. Reading time: 8 hours, 52 minutes. |
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===== SPECIAL EDUCATION (Added 2014) ===== |
==== When the School Says No, How to Get the Yes!: Securing Special Education Services for Your Child ==== |
**Author:** Vaughn Lauer\\ |
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Special education professional offers guidance to help parents obtain an Individualized Education Program (IEP) for a child with special needs. Advocates a collaborative approach and uses case studies to illustrate what works and what does not. **20052014**.\\ |
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* [[httphttps://hdlnlsbard.loc.gov/loc.nlsdownload/db.61233detail/prefix/DB/bookmag/78247|DB 6123378247]] - Read by Ken KlibanJeff Allin. Reading time : 16 15 hours, 10 28 minutes. |
* [[https://nlsbard.loc.gov/download/book/srch/16193/prefix/BR|BR 16193]] - 4 volumes. |
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